Finding a job following dismissal for gross misconduct

lakes17

Orville wrote: »

Out of interest have you been sanctioned by the JC for your dismissal..?

Shazza is working and has been every since she signed on so the sanction never applied to her.

Orville

Sorry at the time of posting i was reading the first page. Still only on page 4...lol.

Shazza122

Orville....as Lakes said I signed off before any sanction was applied...thank goodness!!

Orville

Shazza122 wrote: »

Orville....as Lakes said I signed off before any sanction was applied...thank goodness!!

Were you warned there would be a sanction and any idea of the length of time?

Infact any others in this thread who have been dismissed for GM. How long were you sanctioned for if you even were..?

Shazza122

It was briefly mentioned and just before I signed off they had contacted my employer. I believe for a first incidence it's a 3 month sanction.....

Shazza122

So went to docs today....couldn't wait until later in the week as I was feeling so low...put on medication and registered for telephone CBT sessions....let's hope this helps.

elsien

I hope it helps and you start to feel better soon.

Shazza122

I hope so too Elsien. I've even started to try and sort out debts so baby steps and all that....

paulineb_2

Shazza122 wrote: »

Thanks Pauline.

Does it make any sense that I'm actually terrified of getting a permanent job?? I feel so much safer temping....Permanency makes me feel the opposite of what it should offer....insecure not secure!!!

If you'd said to me a few weeks ago that after such a short time I would possibly have the opportunity of a permanent job I would have been so happy....but now it just scares me witless!!!

I know it doesn't make sense...my heid is a mess lol!!

Its the fear of going through the same thing again, totally understandable.

Be kind to yourself, you will get through this, take it from someone who has been there.

Shazza122

It's exactly that Pauline....

Thank you I am trying :-)