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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • good_vibes
    good_vibes Posts: 546 Forumite
    Congratulations Floaty and Tam!!! xx
  • TamVilla80
    TamVilla80 Posts: 588 Forumite
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    Thanks ladies, it means a lot. (Yes, I'm still sneaking around here - too scared to try the next thread) The other fertility clinic that we nearly went to has a private scan from 6 weeks for £75, so oh says I should do that to put my mind at rest. I thought trying to conceive was sending me neurotic, I think the last 10 days has made me even worse!


    Going back to hiding now. Hope you are all well xxx
  • lulu_92
    lulu_92 Posts: 2,758 Forumite
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    TamVilla80 wrote: »
    Thanks ladies, it means a lot. (Yes, I'm still sneaking around here - too scared to try the next thread) The other fertility clinic that we nearly went to has a private scan from 6 weeks for £75, so oh says I should do that to put my mind at rest. I thought trying to conceive was sending me neurotic, I think the last 10 days has made me even worse!


    Going back to hiding now. Hope you are all well xxx

    *delurking*
    Not sure where you're based but I went to Premier Scans and they have clinics in Leics and Lichfield and it cost us £60. We probably won't do it if we get pregnant again until around 32 weeks because I miscarried 7 days after my scan.
    *lurking*
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  • pinkteapot
    pinkteapot Posts: 8,044 Forumite
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    Stay here as long as you need to Tam, it's OK. :)
  • picklekin
    picklekin Posts: 889 Forumite
    Congratulations Tam and Shrimpy :)
  • shrimpy_80
    shrimpy_80 Posts: 1,631 Forumite
    picklekin wrote: »
    Congratulations Tam and Shrimpy :)

    Not me Pickle - I'm still here for the foreseeable future! ;) It's Floaty x
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  • Floaty
    Floaty Posts: 143 Forumite
    Am very sorry to say it hasn't lasted :'( Thanks for all your well wishes though, it's been great having you and I'll be back when we can face this all again. Love to all xx
    35, OH 39, unexplained IF (all tests normal), no joy w/ 3 cycles of Clomid, IVF1, Jan 2015 - BFN. Currently in 1st FET cycle using endo scratch and EmbryoGlue, BFP 4th July. MC 12th July :'(
  • ThinkPink
    ThinkPink Posts: 893 Forumite
    Oh huge hugs floaty, so sorry to hear about your sad news. Just look after yourself.xx

    Me and oh are trying again, so I hope you don't mind me joining back here again. It has taken me six months to fully feel ready to start trying again after my mmc, and even now I'm still a bit anxious about how long it may take (if we are lucky enough) to get another bfp, and how I will cope during the first 12 weeks, but we shall just see how things go.
  • skaps
    skaps Posts: 2,255 Forumite
    So sorry to hear that Floaty. Take time for yourself xxx.
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  • pinkteapot
    pinkteapot Posts: 8,044 Forumite
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    I am so sorry, Floaty. This journey can be utterly, utterly cruel.
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