The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

tea_lover

It's not fair. Not at all. It's not fair that people get pg when they don't want to, when they don't deserve to, when they don't give a monkeys about the children they already have, when they haven't given a second thought to how they're going to live, when they're not that bothered either way... none of it is fair when there are so many people that would make a much better job of it who never get the chance.

That's not helpful I realise, but believe me, we know what you mean! All I can suggest is dog cuddles and cadbury buttons xx.

codemonkey

tea_lover wrote: »

It's not fair. Not at all. It's not fair that people get pg when they don't want to, when they don't deserve to, when they don't give a monkeys about the children they already have, when they haven't given a second thought to how they're going to live, when they're not that bothered either way... none of it is fair when there are so many people that would make a much better job of it who never get the chance.

That's not helpful I realise, but believe me, we know what you mean! All I can suggest is dog cuddles and cadbury buttons xx.

I'm at work so dog cuddles will have to wait, but the chocolate I can do. I have a bag of chocolate snowmen and santas.:rotfl:

tea_lover

Ooh festive treats - I like it!

codemonkey

They sort of jumped into my basket...

tea_lover

A shocking amount of cr.ap has jumped into my mouth this weekend. Was stuck at home with a stinking cold, fed up as I missed a lovely day out that was planned and with no proper decent food in. Ended up eating up pretty much everything that had been knocking around the treat cupboard for a few months.

Have got to get it in hand before it all starts slipping again. Have already put 2 lbs back on

pinkteapot

Important announcement: I'm drinking a wine so good that it's totally worth not being pregnant for. Wolf Blass Silver Label Chardonnay.

Wonder_Woman

*tiptoes back in*

Ladies can I join you again please? DH and I have just signed up for round #3 of IVF in January with immune meds. God only knows if this is the right thing to do!!!

Is anyone else cycling in January?

lauraw82

Hi ladies, hope everyone is ok?

Just a quick check on from me as I'm on my phone, good luck to everyone cycling at the mo, will keep everything crossed for you all.

AFM I've started my first clomid cycle, scan is booked for Friday morning so I've warned OH he had better not stay late at work that night! Didn't suffer too many side effects, just rather emotional and a little bloated. The only problem is that the day the hospital reckons I will either get AF or a BFP is OHs birthday, haven't told him this tho in case it's bad news.

lisawood78

Ooo WW exciting, are you doing intralipids, steroids or something else? (or all of it!)
Just a quick one as I need to be up and running a toddler christmas party for 40, 0-4 year olds complete with buffet and Santa in the morning.
Lab rang today to say we have 9 fertilised out of 10 so going ahead for blastocyst. They'll ring again on Thursday looking at hopefully a Saturday transfer.
Very nervous

Wonder_Woman

Thanks Lisa, we're going to try all of it. Am frightened and overwhelmed but figured we'd regret not giving it a go while we could. That's great news on the fertilisation, c'mon the embryos!!