The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

Part_Mouse

Tea I love doing that with them music up loud.

lisawood78

Another spotless house Here also. Hubby home today after not seeing him for 10days and I always go round and clean everything I can find. Not that it's dirty anyway but after working away for chunks at a time I can imagine its a nice feeling to come home to a spotless house. Of course till last about 10 minutes once he's through the door but it's worth it to me.
Hugs PM I'm really hoping they have some kind of answers for you at your appointment, sit there and be bloody minded with them til they do something constructive!
Assuming you now get a 'normal' AF Tea, you will only be a couple of weeks behind me so all is not lost. I understand the frustration and upset that it causes when something stupid, that isn't your fault at all causes delays. On top of that, another month of not hearing the stims part of your CD!! Im considering getting it but I keep balking at the full £15 price tag which is ridiculous really as we have just paid over £6k for this one cycle of IVF!! Think I will sell on my Zita West one and then I will feel better about the money!
I'll be in your gang LA, are you doing long protocol?


Thinking of our Pupo ladies today xx

Part_Mouse

Lisa I'm not really sure what they can do, it's been a prob now for years and know I will need a hysterectomy at some point soon, I'm just sick of bleeding all he time.its so tiring.

teaandcakeordeath

Tea you're much more restrained than me. I'd definitely speak to pals at the hospital about the nurse's attitude and the consent issue. Of all the departments in the hospital surely it's common sense that the ivf/ fertility clinic HAS to be flexible and on top of their documentation.

Peonie

Tea, I'm gutted for you. Our cycle was also delayed by Christmas and I was gutted. It was like our chance had been snatched away from us again after waiting for so long to start. You have every right to be angry. Are you with the HC or am I imagining it?

PM, I really hope you get a normal cycle [STRIKE]soon[/STRIKE] now.

Part_Mouse

Peonie I've never ever has a normal cycle in my life,I've tried pretty much everything to make it happen but with no sucess. I would settle for not bleeding all the time though.come on Monday.

Tea huge hugs to you.

good_vibes

Oh tea, am so gutted for you. From the caring profession am sure more help could have been done.
It a kind of nursing job I will keep my eye on as I am going through it and know how it feels. The waiting to start stage is sooo rubbish and limbo land.

tia86

Hi all, not been round in a while as been on holiday.

Tea - cannot believe that has happened - why did someone not notice before? I would be so annoyed with them. I would definitely complain and discuss with them about them checking their documents more carefully.

PM - hugs for bleeding again, hope the scan goes ok

AFM went for my scan this week, all apparently looked ok. I asked whether there was any signs of PCOS as that is what the doctor had told me they would check for, but the person doing the scan said evidence of that would be more from a blood test rather than the scan. I just wish all the professionals could be in agreement for what the tests are for and why.
OH is not coming to the fertility appointment next month - too difficult to get time off work discreetly - does anyone know what sort of things they might discuss during the first appointment? I rang to check it was ok to go alone and the receptionist said it was ok as long as I could answer questions on behalf of OH and that it is more an informative meeting at that point.

Rowingirl

Today is OTD and I had a BFN. I feel relieved it's over as the last week felt like a cruel charade. Now DH & I can move on and make future plans. Thank you ladies for your support, kindness and generosity.

mrshappy

So sorry RG x