The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

mrsvicx

Thanks FP for adding me to the grad list - I never thought I would see my name on there!!
Fingers crossed for your 6, I hope you don't mind, but I'm going to lurk for a little while as I'd like to see how you get on and keep my fingers crossed for you

Part_Mouse

Morning all

Bleeding pretty heavy now

jammy26

Hugs to you Part Mouse xxxx

Part_Mouse

Thanks jammy. Just been in the garden trying to lift my mood but not feeling hopeful for this cycle.

mrsvicx

Hugs PM :grouphug:

Wow -those hugs look really dodgy!!

Part_Mouse

They sure do. Did you do a test with hubby?

mrsvicx

I did, I used one of those clear blue ones with the words on (I've avoided them since the first time I got "not pregnant") I was still kind of shocked when it came up "pregnant" +3. I'm guessing that it goes from actual date of conception, as from my dates I am 6+5.
He's so shocked, but far more practical and already told me that we will have to cancel our holiday this year (we were going to Florida) I know it's stupid that I'm disappointed, but I'm worried how DS is going to take the news that he's not getting his trip to Disneyworld and he'll also have to share Mummy and Daddy
I see his point though, if my salary is reducing then we really can't afford to spend 5-6 grand on a two week holiday.....

Part_Mouse

Ouch that is a lot to spend on a holiday. Im sure your ds will understand in time. For now enjoy your bfp.

I have 2 digi's but not had any reason to try one.Think they might go out of date before there used.

mrsvicx

Yep, it's a huge amount, but we had saved for over a year and DS is so excited...
I'm hoping that being told that he'll have at least a year of me walking him to and from school will help. I usually drive him there in the morning and he is picked up by his grandparents in the evening. He doesn't get to have friends over either, which he will when I'm on leave, so hopefully that will help too

Part_Mouse

Looking at your siggy you've done really well so why shouldn't you enjoy the fruits of your labour. Sometimes though things don't plan out like we thought they would.

Going to call it a night now.

Sleep well.