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  • Valli
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    edited 12 February 2014 at 10:42PM
    WTFH wrote: »
    Valli's point is that the magazine is interested in hearing your opinion, and possibly publishing part of it on their letters page. They are not in publishing your story as a feature article, and will want to edit what you submit to them before they decide whether or not to publish. It is not, as you put it "media interest in your story".


    Exactly; thank you WTFH, for putting it so succinctly
    hachette wrote: »
    And you know all that. Wowww

    Yes!; he/she did work it out from what I said! That was exactly my point - it's not 'media interest' in your story at all!
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
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  • meritaten wrote: »
    hachette - I have read your original thread and while I have every sympathy, and in fact, think you are right in that the vet was incompetent - you cant win. Simply because her professional organisation are backing HER. some battles just cannot be won. and I think this is one of them.
    I am so sorry, but, I think you have done as much as you can and its time to put it behind you. you are wasting energy persueing this. why not put it to better use by campaigning for tighter controls on veterinary practices?

    That is exactly what I am trying to do. It is not about Maxie any more, he is just an example what is going on and that things need to change. Negligent vets are laughing as there is nobody that can do anything about them. Nobody at all.
  • Youre questioning this posters 'qualifications' to suggest therapy?

    Yet you appear to be 'qualified' enough to determine whether a Vet should be struck off.

    No, I am not but I have a very qualified forensic vet report to support me and my view of my vet's actions.
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    yes - but you are targeting a single vet. you need to take on the problem AS A WHOLE. I am sure there are others out there who have had tragedies like yours. you need to get together and force changes through so that incompetent vets are not shielded by 'professional umbrellas'. right now you are a 'lone voice' and easily ignored. look up successful campaigns and study their 'strategy'. most changes are put through by lobby 'groups'. YOU seem to have the drive and energy to lead a group - so start one!
    you have made a start on here - now go nationwide on effbook or twitter asking for similar experiences and contacting people who will join you. become a 'pressure group'. call it 'Maxies "whatever" and get together and decide on your goals.
    and I wish you luck. and hope you succeed in getting incompetent vets out.
  • meritaten wrote: »
    yes - but you are targeting a single vet. you need to take on the problem AS A WHOLE. I am sure there are others out there who have had tragedies like yours. you need to get together and force changes through so that incompetent vets are not shielded by 'professional umbrellas'. right now you are a 'lone voice' and easily ignored. look up successful campaigns and study their 'strategy'. most changes are put through by lobby 'groups'. YOU seem to have the drive and energy to lead a group - so start one!
    you have made a start on here - now go nationwide on effbook or twitter asking for similar experiences and contacting people who will join you. become a 'pressure group'. call it 'Maxies "whatever" and get together and decide on your goals.
    and I wish you luck. and hope you succeed in getting incompetent vets out.

    Thank you so much for that. Just wanted to say that I am not targeting a single vet (my ex-vet) far from it . Your advice is very
    inspiring and I will try to do just that. :)
  • hachette wrote: »
    Negligent vets are laughing as there is nobody that can do anything about them.

    One mistake! As people have said everyone makes mistakes, don't you get what this means?

    And now you're saying their apparently laughing, any proof??
  • I am sure no vets anywhere laugh if a mistake is made and an animal lost.

    OP, you do need to move on. As has been pointed out, people make mistakes in every profession - they wouldn't be human if they didn't make mistakes.

    HBS x
    "I believe in ordinary acts of bravery, in the courage that drives one person to stand up for another."

    "It's easy to know what you're against, quite another to know what you're for."

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  • hachette wrote: »
    No, I am not but I have a very qualified forensic vet report to support me and my view of my vet's actions.

    Quite frankly, you need to grow up.
  • meer53 wrote: »
    OP writes 3 letters
    RCVS reply
    OP writes again by email
    RCVS replies again
    OP replies again ..............................

    Will it never end ? Please make it stop :(

    Not like it don't light it (or rather click on it). Easy.
  • One mistake! As people have said everyone makes mistakes, don't you get what this means?

    And now you're saying their apparently laughing, any proof??

    This is just a matter of speach. Do you think I had a camera in her practice recording her in fits of laughter? Grow up.

    I am sure my dog's death was very upsetting to her as well but some people seem to miss the point of me taking it further.
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