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EBAY - debt collectors letter - I won't pay!!

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  • marliepanda
    marliepanda Posts: 7,186 Forumite
    I understand your position, and how annoyed you must be.

    However, unless you are willing to pursue to buyer then you will be the one who comes off worse, financially, for the sake of £60.

    Selling on eBay is a risk and you simply cannot just say 'eBay need to deal with it' as they have, already, and so far have ruled against you. Unless you challenge the buyer then you will be the one who loses, for £60. Principles aside, that's silly.

    Harassing her on Facebook won't help your chances in court or with ebay. Despite principles is just cough up and move on. My time and peace is worth more that £60.

    I also doubt the CEO of eBay is looking into it... These things will happen everyday. I guarantee that.
  • wealdroam
    wealdroam Posts: 19,180 Forumite
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    suesieq wrote: »
    True - although I managed to track her down on FB and have told her whats been happening but not the latest news. I've also been in contact with the CEO of Ebay who are also looking in to the whole matter - when I tell them of the latest news they will have to deal with her then

    No, ebay don't have to deal with anything. the two parties to the deal are you and your buyer.

    Ebay think you own them money, and they are chasing you for that money.

    You need to proactively chase the buyer for the money or coat they owe you.
  • suesieq
    suesieq Posts: 23 Forumite
    absolutely NO WAY will I pay out to a thief and con artist!! It's letting people get away with things that make them do it again and again. I will win this - watch this space and btw I have harrassed noone - she thinks it's all done and dusted and she's gotten away with it - i wanted to let her know that it is not over and that i have been harrassed by debt collectors because of her - if she had an ounce of decency she would own up to what she has done and pay up. She needs to know that I wont give in - would you give in to a bully???
  • suesieq
    suesieq Posts: 23 Forumite
    wealdroam wrote: »
    No, ebay don't have to deal with anything. the two parties to the deal are you and your buyer.

    Ebay think you own them money, and they are chasing you for that money.

    You need to proactively chase the buyer for the money or coat they owe you.

    Believe me I have but to no avail - at least now I have proof of her unlawful act
  • marliepanda
    marliepanda Posts: 7,186 Forumite
    edited 18 January 2014 at 7:06PM
    suesieq wrote: »
    Believe me I have but to no avail - at least now I have proof of her unlawful act

    You have no 'proof'

    A heavier package could simply mean heavier packaging (I know you say it's the same, but it's still your word against hers). It does not prove anything. I also doubt the post office will give you info of someone else's transaction...
  • suesieq
    suesieq Posts: 23 Forumite
    You have no 'proof'

    A heavier package could simply mean heavier packaging. It does not prove anything.

    Rubbish! I do have proof, the packaging was the same I sent to her, it even has my labels still on
  • hollydays
    hollydays Posts: 19,812 Forumite
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    I hate being conned too but I don't think you can win here. If eBay close your account you won't be able to open another one.
  • custardy
    custardy Posts: 38,365 Forumite
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    suesieq wrote: »
    True - although I managed to track her down on FB and have told her whats been happening but not the latest news. I've also been in contact with the CEO of Ebay who are also looking in to the whole matter - when I tell them of the latest news they will have to deal with her then

    So to save you going off track.
    If you were the CEO of eBay(who isnt doing anything)
    How would you decide who is telling the truth?
  • hollydays
    hollydays Posts: 19,812 Forumite
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    Tell us about the initial issue. You say she moaned, but what exactly happened. I'd like to hear both sides.
  • marliepanda
    marliepanda Posts: 7,186 Forumite
    suesieq wrote: »
    Rubbish! I do have proof, the packaging was the same I sent to her, it even has my labels still on

    I edited to clarify a bit, but you have ZERO proof. The post office won't give you any info on the weight of her parcel.

    You are fighting a losing battle the way you are choosing to fight.

    Just saying 'I'm not paying, your problem, deal with it' will get you nowhere. Either take the good advice given earlier, or pay up.
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