Am I right to be suspicious?

jackieblack

Bazey wrote: »

When you say adventurous, can you give us a little more detail?

:cool:

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hazyjo

Agree cheaing partners often rediscover sex with their OHs.

Look for other signs...

When my first husband cheated, he started leaving his phone in his van overnight (despite previously being paranoid about leaving it there cos he was worried it'd get nicked).

He lost loads of weight (the affair started when he'd dropped a few sizes).

He wouldn't make future commitments like booking a holiday.

He'd be happy to nip out for things.

New clothes. Aftershave (as someone said above). Desire to look nice.

Going out with his mates when he previously didn't. My ex started (apparently) going out on a Fri night. He stayed out once or twice at 'his mate's' too.

Being snappy (he bit my head off for no reason on several occasions).

Think about who it could be. Who did he used to talk about at work but no longer does.

Working longer hours. (Make sure you ring him on his office number not his mobile.)

Someone, somewhere, is paying him attention.

Did he have a Christmas party? Did you go? Do you usually?

Check his phone records if you can.

Jx

Cotta

Bazey wrote: »

Of course he's having an affair!

When you say adventurous, can you give us a little more detail?

I don't mind your constant trolling but on sensitive subjects can you try to show a little more respect?

Bazey

Cotta wrote: »

I don't mind your constant trolling but on sensitive subjects can you try to show a little more respect?

Can you show some respect and not call me a troll?

Cotta

Bazey wrote: »

Can you show some respect and not call me a troll?

Why do feel the need to troll then, are you so in love with yourself that you feel your "wit" is needed in every thread?

Personally I don't find you funny but even John Leslie had his fans.

System

Agree cheaing partners often rediscover sex with their OHs.

My ex didn't. He must have saved the $h!te sex for me.:mad:

dandelionclock30

Hes having an affair, if it looks like a duck,acts like a duck and quacks like duck its a duck. Tell him to come clean and not to insult your intelligence.

The_Hurricane

Judi wrote: »

My ex didn't. He must have saved the $h!te sex for me.:mad:

Why is the man always blamed in the bedroom department??

hazyjo

Judi wrote: »

My ex didn't. He must have saved the $h!te sex for me.:mad:

If that's how he usually performs - bet your bottom dollar she's now putting up with it too (if still together)!

When someone steals your partner - the best revenge is to let the other person keep them

Jx

Mojisola

hazyjo wrote: »

When someone steals your partner - the best revenge is to let the other person keep them

Nobody "steals" a partner - they make the choice to go with someone else.