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  • Hi just to say thanks for posting...I empathise with you about getting sent letters...I'm getting sent letters to different story but I too feel like "they" don't understand... I'll health can't be helped and a letter isn't the best help...they could be more understanding... My niece is off school a lot its a chronic cond. Hospitals etc etc & she can't help bring I'll but she will receive the same letters & same tick box rule...its a system but not very human of caring.
    Don't beat yourself up...well done for sharing your situation here...you have helped me a bit.
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  • BookWorm
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    Helloooooooooooooooooo!

    I've been away for the weekend visiting a friend. Had a lovely relaxing time :)

    Can't say I'm much looking forward to being back on the treadmill of work tomorrow... but I suppose needs must and all that ;)

    I've just had a quick reccy of what I've missed... and the highlights seems to be vomit and DIY.... :o .... is that about right? :rotfl:
  • Need2bthrifty
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    BookWorm wrote: »
    Helloooooooooooooooooo!

    I've just had a quick reccy of what I've missed... and the highlights seems to be vomit and DIY.... :o .... is that about right? :rotfl:

    Ditto :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    ellie99 wrote: »
    Is it raining yet LB?

    Raining...raining!! - it's blooming SNOW here, !!!!!!, I was sitting out sunning myself a couple of days ago and dealing with a wasp that had decided to build a nest under my flat roof - shouldnt have bothered the weather would have killed it :rotfl: :rotfl:
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  • 3forholidays
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    Raining...raining!! - it's blooming SNOW here, !!!!!!, I was sitting out sunning myself a couple of days ago and dealing with a wasp that had decided to build a nest under my flat roof - shouldnt have bothered the weather would have killed it :rotfl: :rotfl:

    Typical Scottish weather - 4 seasons in one day! I was planning a trip out today but decided against that when the snow came on!
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  • LavenderBees
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    If it helps, we've had hail stones :)

    Ellie - I'd offer anyone lunch if they did some chores for me :p

    I have not stopped all day and still have my ironing to do. Anyone offering to help.....? .....that'll be a no then :rotfl:

    LB xx
  • ellie99
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    LB, if you've already got your ironing board out, I'll just send mine over to you...:rotfl:

    Got the idea niggling in my head that I should have my hair cut really short, which would be a big change for me...can't quite decide if I should...just fed up of it looking a mess when it blows about in the wind at work. I suppose if I hate it it'll soon grow again :)


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  • LavenderBees
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    ellie99 wrote: »
    LB, if you've already got your ironing board out, I'll just send mine over to you...:rotfl:

    Got the idea niggling in my head that I should have my hair cut really short, which would be a big change for me...can't quite decide if I should...just fed up of it looking a mess when it blows about in the wind at work. I suppose if I hate it it'll soon grow again :)

    I've made the fatal mistake of sitting down...no chance of ironing or anything else being done tonight. Got nowt to wear for work tomorrow now :o.

    On the haircut front, speaking as someone who tried a short cut years ago and HATED it, absolutely HATED it, I would advise shortening it gradually....

    LB xx
  • LavenderBees
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    BookWorm wrote: »
    Helloooooooooooooooooo!

    I've been away for the weekend visiting a friend. Had a lovely relaxing time :)

    Can't say I'm much looking forward to being back on the treadmill of work tomorrow... but I suppose needs must and all that ;)

    I've just had a quick reccy of what I've missed... and the highlights seems to be vomit and DIY.... :o .... is that about right? :rotfl:

    Glad you've had a good time :p

    And...yes.....:rotfl:

    LB xx
  • ellie99
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    On the haircut front, speaking as someone who tried a short cut years ago and HATED it, absolutely HATED it, I would advise shortening it gradually....

    LB xx

    Hmm, the last couple of times I've been to the hairdressers I've said to her I want it shorter (well obviously, having a hair cut, but you know what I mean!) but she only does it a little bit shorter, probably because I've been havering between short and long enough to tie up. she also knows I haven't got the patience to style it in the mornings, which is the main thing putting me off.
    I just really feel like a change.

    The ex (the one who didn't like cats, so we know what we think about him :)) had a major thing about me having long hair, he didn't like it when I went for haircuts. There may be a small bit of "creating a new me" involved here, I think.

    Part of the new me is starting a diet *again* tomorrow :o


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  • Byatt
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    I was growing my hair, once in order to have it cut...:p I wanted a particular style, a razor cut and the hairdresser promised it could be done...I took a pic in and everything. It was a disaster, and I went to another hairdresser who, on a weekly basis, cut it shorter and shorter in an attempt to improve it...which was also a disaster...:o

    My ex also preferred long hair on me, but I thought s#d that, when he grew a beard which I hated. ;)

    I'm no help am I Ellie...:rotfl:

    Maybe go for it, you can always buy a wig :cool::D
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