Seller appears on doorstep...

Flyonthewall

skitler wrote: »

ive suggested the same regarding the security


fotw is reported to be a paid employee of op

*rolls eyes* you've been out on the water too long trying to find them fish

Maybe that's where I've been going wrong though - should have people pay me to keep replying and answer peoples questions on the situation lol. Could make a fortune

likelyfran

skitler wrote: »

what difference does it matter to you who brings your parcel


see item
click buy and pay
seller delivers item


that hasn't inconvienienced you in any way


p+p is chargable no matter who delivers, its not illegal or any business of ebay. its at the sellers discretion.

Ok, in this looooooong, strange, repetitive and admittedly now quite pointless thread, I'll throw another of my h'pennys in:

I think what 'most everyone' here is MISSING is a fundamental personality type variation.

The attitude of most is 'what does it matter?/just say thanks' etc.

Now, call it 'uptight', 'neurotic' or whatever you like but some people just aren't so 'laid back' like this.
I have no difficulty at all in understanding where OP is coming from - and no sense at all that she is 'lying' about anything - as, to me, if someone ignored my communication (that they'd asked for!), and then presented their visog to me at close quarters, unexpectedly, at the front door to my castle and sanctuary - I'd be put out too!!

I don't like people ignoring my expressed wishes, it pushes one of my buttons - quite aside from the fact that when buying on Ebay, I am the CUSTOMER and personally, customer service is very important to me!

So, all in all, the seller in this case (seller/seller's rep, whatever it's all the same really), handled this sales transaction very strangely, imo, and it would do my noddle in if they'd transacted thus with me.

Still do not get what's so hard to get! Clearly down to personality types.

likelyfran

chancesare wrote: »

Fly, you seem to be defending the OP above and beyond....are you she?

FWIW I think the OP should put up barbed wired around her entire perimeter and have an intercom at the end of her path so she can vet the callers.

Or perhaps, just get a life?

You're missing the very simple crux of the matter, as are most on here. No need for such extremes.

likelyfran

skitler wrote: »

op did provoke the knocker by the point to the sign and being shirty cant you read attitude. the knocker was therefore provoked by op who was surprised when knocker arrived.




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Originally Posted by skitler
but its not clear that the delivery person got the message not to deliver,


the door was knocked on


the door was opened


the buyer gets uppity with door knocker,


why would sellers rep go to the trouble to deliver and then just for no reason start abusing op, he can knock on any door in any street and do that if that was his game.
the op is with holding info and not being entirely truthfull, part of this story is missing from op. as we know there are 2 side to every tale, and op has be caught wanting.

Oh for goodness' sake - delivery person is spouse of seller (ie. 'is' the seller to all intents and purposes)!
Picking at nothing here?!


no matter what seller and knocker relationship is he may not have been informed by seller of the no don't dilliver he may have had 100 to deliver and got confused, he was male after all

Not getting the logic of your post. It's not the buyer's job to be concerned about the seller's husband's possible circumstances or psychology. That's just ridiculous, can't you see that?
Also, you keep saying the OP 'provoked' the caller - did she?? I think you're imagining this.

likelyfran

skitler wrote: »

ive suggested the same regarding the security


fotw is reported to be a paid employee of op

Keep it up Skitler. :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::T

Flyonthewall

likelyfran wrote: »

Not getting the logic of your post. It's not the buyer's job to be concerned about the seller's husband's possible circumstances or psychology. That's just ridiculous, can't you see that?
Also, you keep saying the OP 'provoked' the caller - did she?? I think you're imagining this.

There's no logic to any of their posts lol.

skitler

likelyfran wrote: »

Ok, in this looooooong, strange, repetitive and admittedly now quite pointless thread, I'll throw another of my h'pennys in:

I think what 'most everyone' here is MISSING is a fundamental personality type variation.

The attitude of most is 'what does it matter?/just say thanks' etc.

Now, call it 'uptight', 'neurotic' or whatever you like but some people just aren't so 'laid back' like this.
I have no difficulty at all in understanding where OP is coming from - and no sense at all that she is 'lying' about anything - as, to me, if someone ignored my communication (that they'd asked for!), and then presented their visog to me at close quarters, unexpectedly, at the front door to my castle and sanctuary - I'd be put out too!!

I don't like people ignoring my expressed wishes, it pushes one of my buttons - quite aside from the fact that when buying on Ebay, I am the CUSTOMER and personally, customer service is very important to me!

So, all in all, the seller in this case (seller/seller's rep, whatever it's all the same really), handled this sales transaction very strangely, imo, and it would do my noddle in if they'd transacted thus with me.

Still do not get what's so hard to get! Clearly down to personality types.

so the moral is don't ask what buyer prefers, do as you please then you haven't disregarded anyones wishes. got it. im glad we have cleaerd that up as I was getting confused.

likelyfran

skitler wrote: »

so the moral is don't ask what buyer prefers, do as you please then you haven't disregarded anyones wishes. got it. im glad we have cleaerd that up as I was getting confused.

No, the point is that seller didn't do what they SAID they would do in listing.
And on top of that, they did this after asking buyer and then ignoring what she said anyway.
Double whammy stupidity!

skitler

likelyfran wrote: »

Not getting the logic of your post. It's not the buyer's job to be concerned about the seller's husband's possible circumstances or psychology. That's just ridiculous, can't you see that?
Also, you keep saying the OP 'provoked' the caller - did she?? I think you're imagining this.

points in order


not surprised ive read your other insane rants


it is when he knocks on the door


yes sign pointing and and saying in a obviously shirty manor "can you read"


what you think is not what happened or are you a ops other rep.

chancesare_2

likelyfran wrote: »

You're missing the very simple crux of the matter, as are most on here. No need for such extremes.

There is definitely someone very simple here......

What a storm in a teacup.

At least the Op isn't posting about anything terrible happening in the world eh!