MSE Newborn to 1 year (& beyond!) baby club 3

janed9388

so so sorry sweeti, I cannot imagine how your are feeling but lots of hugs to you and Mr S. Stay strong and look after yourself.

TamVilla80

So sorry to hear about your beautiful little girl Sweetilemom, my heart goes out to you. I know no words can help you at the moment as everything is so surreal, but please know that there is support out there and you are not alone.
We were on the 12-24 weeks thread together until I lost my little boy and you posted me a lovely message. I know our situations are different but I know how heartbroken you are to have to give your baby back. If you need a chat, or there is anything I can do, please message me.
Be gentle on yourself xxx

euronorris

Sweeti, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you, your hubby and family. Take care of yourselves xxxx

Gelly123

Oh sweeti - I've been thinking of you since I saw your previous post.

So utterly sorry you are going going through this and you've lost your brave daughter.

Biggest hugs to you and your OH.
Love Gelly
x

flutterbyuk25

Oh Sweetilemom, I don't know what to say. You are all in my thoughts. Look after yourseves xx

Claire_A87

I lurk around here a bit, but mostly keep things to the facebook group. I just wanted to say I'm so so sorry sweeti, I'm absolutely heartbroken for you. You're in my thoughts, be kind to yourself xxx

Beckyy

No words feel enough, thinking of you sweeti x

keza

i don't normally post on here much but I just wanted to send lots of love your way sweetielemon. I cannot imagine what your are going through and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Saffagal

Just logged on and seen your sad news sweeti. Sending you and your OH hugs and hope that you will find comfort in the time that you did have with your precious baby.

Much love, saf xx

sweetilemon

TamVilla80 wrote: »

So sorry to hear about your beautiful little girl Sweetilemom, my heart goes out to you. I know no words can help you at the moment as everything is so surreal, but please know that there is support out there and you are not alone.
We were on the 12-24 weeks thread together until I lost my little boy and you posted me a lovely message. I know our situations are different but I know how heartbroken you are to have to give your baby back. If you need a chat, or there is anything I can do, please message me.
Be gentle on yourself xxx

Thanks everyone. Just been focusing on making the funeral as nice as possible for my baby girl. Sometimes I feel like I am getting through the day then other times I just feel unable to cope. My OH has been fantastic. I just feel so sad for her that she is missing out on so much. All my maternity plans and life plans have been changed completely. My body misses her, didn't think I'd have to stop breastfeeding so soon. I just don't want to believe she is gone. I know I'll always be a mum and i'm lucky to have memories but I just want her to be here and healthy. It was all so sudden. Unbelievable how quickly your world can change.

TamVilla80 I remember when you told us about your little boy, I know it's slightly different but I doubt either is easier, just different. Stories like yours did make me appreciate the moments I had with my little girl. How are you coping? I don't think this feeling like something is missing will go away ever, I'll always think of her I'm just hoping at one point I might again care about daily life, at the moment I'm so numb and have no time for life's silly things.

I've just always wanted to be a mummy and see my baby grow, I knew how lucky I was to have that I am just devestated for my daughter it's ended so quickly.