Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! Part 4!!

Whattodonow

Anws - or call in sick?

alipops1986

Morning All,


I'm please to see and hear that we're trying to be more positive! I know exactly how much you can doubt everything, fortunately I have no reason to believe there are any problems but with our 12 week scan on Monday doubt does creep in.


It's day 3 off sick for me, this flippin cold is now starting to frustrate me. I do feel better, nose is still driving me bonkers but I'm hoping i'll be back to work tomorrow.


Alipops x

Miss_Imaginative

claire16c wrote: »

Could your DH tell his work he's got a drs appt?

I agree with this idea - before my DH had told his boss we were expecting, he said he needed time off for a medical appointment and got it. It's worth a try if you still feel uneasy telling people!

Daisiegg, really pleased the meeting went well and that you told your Head Teacher and everything was fine. I hope you slept well and you're feeling a bit brighter this morning. Your decision for the change in attitude is a very good one, and one I think I will have to adopt rather than just expecting the worst all the time... I'll do it after Friday.

WTDN, I found the early weeks reeeeeally dragged too, which is horrid when you're on tender-hooks! In positive news I have found the last couple of weeks (once I reached double figures) have flown, so it does get better.

Alipops, I hope you feel better soon - it's horrible, isn't it? I've got a stinking cold too and that combined with pregnancy fatigue is really wiping me out. Take it easy today and make sure you don't go back to work too soon!

Mrs_I

alipops1986

Miss_Imaginative wrote: »

I agree with this idea - before my DH had told his boss we were expecting, he said he needed time off for a medical appointment and got it. It's worth a try if you still feel uneasy telling people!

Daisiegg, really pleased the meeting went well and that you told your Head Teacher and everything was fine. I hope you slept well and you're feeling a bit brighter this morning. Your decision for the change in attitude is a very good one, and one I think I will have to adopt rather than just expecting the worst all the time... I'll do it after Friday.

WTDN, I found the early weeks reeeeeally dragged too, which is horrid when you're on tender-hooks! In positive news I have found the last couple of weeks (once I reached double figures) have flown, so it does get better.

Alipops, I hope you feel better soon - it's horrible, isn't it? I've got a stinking cold too and that combined with pregnancy fatigue is really wiping me out. Take it easy today and make sure you don't go back to work too soon!

Mrs_I

Yes Mrs_I it's very rubbish. I hate having a cold normally, but with only paracetomol to take it's even more irritating than usual. I'm hardly ever off work, but am feeling better today. Also, as I'm a teacher, I've only got 2 more working days until a week off so will muddle through them. The cold plus the pregnancy tiredness is not a good combination at all, I feel for you there. At least I have my 12 week scan on Monday to look forward to!


Alipops x

teaandcakeordeath

Whattodonow wrote: »

Weirdly enough I think I got used to being an infertile. I think I'm still in that mindset.

This a million times over. Also feel really guilty for it happening naturally rather than the ivf i'd resigned myself too. These hormones are making me crazier than usual!

Whattodonow

TCD - you're a dafty

Peonie

I started spotting this morning. Brown blood then red this afternoon. I phoned the hospital but they are not going to bring my scan forward. I had an external visitor so had to go back to my desk and pretend nothing was happening and keep entertaining him when I just wanted to go home.

daisiegg

Peonie wrote: »

I started spotting this morning. Brown blood then red this afternoon. I phoned the hospital but they are not going to bring my scan forward. I had an external visitor so had to go back to my desk and pretend nothing was happening and keep entertaining him when I just wanted to go home.

Oh lord I hope you are ok. How is the spotting now? Did they give a reason for not bringing forward your scan?

claire16c

Peonie wrote: »

I started spotting this morning. Brown blood then red this afternoon. I phoned the hospital but they are not going to bring my scan forward. I had an external visitor so had to go back to my desk and pretend nothing was happening and keep entertaining him when I just wanted to go home.

When is your scan?

If I was in your position Id be ringing my gp and asking them to arrange a scan for me.

time2deal

Are you still bleeding peonie? I called 111 then went to the gp - haven't even told my clinic.

But sending hugs!! It's so stressful. Are you cramping??