Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! Part 4!!

Peonie

Hello,

I've said hello on the other thread so I suppose I should move on.

Here's the list:

The list
[STRIKE]Teaandcakeordeath (tcd) (22-09-14) private scan 28/09. 12wk scan 10/03.[/STRIKE]
FallenArcher (03-10-14)
[STRIKE]Time2deal (08-10-14) 12 week scan 27/03. [/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]Peonie (07-10-14) 12 week scan 27/3.[/STRIKE]
DanielleNic87 (09-10-2014) 12 week scan 19/03 (put back 2 weeks)
Whattodonow (11-10-14) 12 week scan 4/4
Lilmissreading (13-10-14) 12 week scan 31/3
MrsC....tobe (now just MrsC) 17-10-14 12wk scan 10/04
Monty-doggy (27-10-14)
SewIt (03-11-14) 8 week scan 24/03 - 12 week scan ??
Alioops78 (04-11-14) 12 week scan 22/04
Ttc39 (13-11-14)
Frankieloo (23-11-14)
Alizee (1-12-14)
Tinkwings (1-12-14)scan 14/4/14
Wendz86 (2-12-14)

I have struck out myself, TeaCake and T2D (I hope you don't mind) so feel free to remove me/us from the list whenever you want. Then more of you can move to the top of the list :T

Monty-doggy I've only just noticed that you are due on my birthday!

Star, I used this site to date my IVF pregnancy: http://www.fertilityfriends.co.uk/index.php?ac=ivf and anyone else who has just joined I like this site: http://pregnancy.familyeducation.com/pregnancy/66235.html?detoured=1 for telling me about day-by-day and week-by-week development.

I just wanted to say that while the side effects of pregnancy like vomiting and cravings are well known; quite a few of us who have now moved on or are just about to leave have experienced spotting and pain which no-one seems to talk about. Which is scary when it happens - especially at first.

I'll see you all soon on the next thread. :wave:

Yay, I'm a graduate. :dance:

lilmissreading

Sorry was trying to reply that wasn't intending to laugh at your bad day tinkwings and hope it didn't come across like that.

Congrats Peonie! I would also add that diarrhoea and constipation seem to be a fairly common but less talked about symptom also.

tinkwings

Just want to fast forward to the stage where we know that everything is ok . I think having no symptoms makes it harder as if I hadn't poas I wouldn't know I was pg . I have loads of sewing orders to complete as I have my first fair of the year next weekend so may try getting sat at my machine and take my mind off things ....


Sorry xxxxx

lilmissreading

I think I know what you mean tinkwings. I keep thinking once I get past the 12 week scan I'll be less worried. However that's only because I haven't dared allow myself the luxury of worrying about the 20 week potential problems. I have a sneaking feeling that worry is now the state of being. Can't imagine it wearing off when they're born, first day at school, exmas, boyfriend...argh! I can send myself mad with worry.

Lack of symptoms might just be luck - maybe you are due some?! Also there are those people apparently who don't know until they give birth! I would definitely say that if you don't have any yet, crack on with jobs like you suggest because if/when they do you'll miss that time to be productive! I am missing out on social stuff, as well as sorting our new, messy house out which while I of course don't regret pg am anxious about whether I'll EVER get round to these things. I also benefited greatly from having a freezer full of yum healthy meals I cooked before falling pg as during Feb/mid March there was always something yum to fall back on in times of hysterical fatigue.

Silly question perhaps - what do you sew? I can't and my plan was to learn. I love the Sewing Bee and have joined my local WI trying to find local sewwers (quite a few quilters which is way beyond my ability)

PS Being on pg thread means never having to apologise for emotional states. One of the very few rules

FallenArcher

Eek, that means I'm now top of the list!! Scan is on Tuesday when I'll be 13+2 - then I guess I'll be on my way. Really looking forward to my scan but nervous in case it's no longer there- silly eh!?

Sorry to hear some of you are having bad days, I just wanted to stay in
bed this morning but the missus made me get up- very sensible!!!

lilmissreading

I don't think it's silly at all - exactly one of my main worries. I still have a lingering fear it'll turn out I'm crazy...

lilmissreading

lilmissreading wrote: »

I don't think it's silly at all - exactly one of my main worries. I still have a lingering fear it'll turn out I'm crazy...

Sorry crazy and not pg as opposed to my usual crazy/pg additional craziness

tinkwings

lilmissreading wrote: »

I think I know what you mean tinkwings. I keep thinking once I get past the 12 week scan I'll be less worried. However that's only because I haven't dared allow myself the luxury of worrying about the 20 week potential problems. I have a sneaking feeling that worry is now the state of being. Can't imagine it wearing off when they're born, first day at school, exmas, boyfriend...argh! I can send myself mad with worry.

Lack of symptoms might just be luck - maybe you are due some?! Also there are those people apparently who don't know until they give birth! I would definitely say that if you don't have any yet, crack on with jobs like you suggest because if/when they do you'll miss that time to be productive! I am missing out on social stuff, as well as sorting our new, messy house out which while I of course don't regret pg am anxious about whether I'll EVER get round to these things. I also benefited greatly from having a freezer full of yum healthy meals I cooked before falling pg as during Feb/mid March there was always something yum to fall back on in times of hysterical fatigue.

Silly question perhaps - what do you sew? I can't and my plan was to learn. I love the Sewing Bee and have joined my local WI trying to find local sewwers (quite a few quilters which is way beyond my ability)

PS Being on pg thread means never having to apologise for emotional states. One of the very few rules

Thanks you... Agree I have DD1 16 & DD2 3 I never stop stressing about them

This is me :o:o:o https://www.facebook.com/pages/Vanessa-Bunting/262043163885851?ref=hl

lilmissreading

A ha! I knew the stress never stopped...so how do you cope when there are other mini mes requiring love and attention? Struggling to cope with DH's and my needs, couldn't imagine anyone else's...full respect to you lady.

tinkwings

lilmissreading wrote: »

A ha! I knew the stress never stopped...so how do you cope when there are other mini mes requiring love and attention? Struggling to cope with DH's and my needs, couldn't imagine anyone else's...full respect to you lady.

You have no choice !! I run my own business the house two children & a DH!!!

Some days are easier than others but at the end of the day the buck stops with me :o