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  • Fortune_Smiles
    Fortune_Smiles Posts: 5,116 Forumite
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    I hope you have a better day today INOD.

    Fortune x:kisses3:
  • beanielou
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    Hope today is a better day.
    Take care of you.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Yesterday was ok, things are heading in the right direction with regard to getting work cleared. Yesterday evening, I managed some weeding and got four plants into the ground. It then rained all last night so I'm hoping that'll help them settle in. Today I am grateful for
    It being Friday
    A cancelled dublin meeting so no 6 o'clock start
    Peanut butter and banana on toast
    A cooler day
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • A thoroughly indulgent day has been spent with a new home having been identified for one small item but it's one that will never reappear so that's a plus. Nephew came round today and did some gardening but disappeared without getting paid. Need to see what I owe him which may take me into my reserve but a week from payday, that's tolerable. It won't be by much.
    Dinner tonight was chicken served with sweet potato fries that we cooked from a frozen packet for the first time. They were good and I can see the purchase being repeated esp as the shop I bought them in gave me £5 off my next £25 and my laundry liquid is currently half price there at present. There will definitely be a return visit next week as two detergents and the fries will notch up £15 and we always need fresh salad stuffs.
    Hope everyone's having a good weekend.
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • Greying_Pilgrim
    Greying_Pilgrim Posts: 6,615 Forumite
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    Dinner tonight was chicken served with sweet potato fries that we cooked from a frozen packet for the first time. They were good and I can see the purchase being repeated esp as the shop I bought them in gave me £5 off my next £25 and my laundry liquid is currently half price there at present.

    Oooh, INOD - you've answered a question for me :D I get frozen oven chips in h3ron F00ds (don't know if you have them in your neck 'o the woods), and they are a 'no-brand' iyswim, and alongside them very often, in the freezer are sweet potato fries. I've put off trying them, as they are a little more expensive for less chips. But I'm inspired to try them now :D Thanks!

    I've been reading along with your diary - lurking if you will - nodding, sometimes despondently, at the trials and tribulations you face. I'm going through similar - although the scenarios are completely different, the emotions that they stir up in me and DH are pretty similar to those that you talk about. I don't have any solutions - wish I did, because they would sort me out too :D

    I was looking up recipes in some of my old notebooks the other day, and came across a poem by Jose N. Harris - which I know that I have written out on one of my threads before (click on his name, I've linked to a version of it on the web - 'There comes a time in life...'). I thought it relevant to me when I found it for the first time. When I stumbled on it the other day, I read it again and though....... yes, yes indeed.

    Keep going, keep going, keep going*. It's all we can do.

    Greying X

    * I can never say/read that without laughing and thinking of the dear Irish midwife I had during my labour - she said it alot :rotfl:
    Pounds for Panes £7,305/£10,000 - start date Dec 2023
     
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    Non-food spend August 2025 £3.75/£50
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,627 Ambassador
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    Sweet potato chips are just lush.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,627 Ambassador
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    Falling down ( on so many levels) is indeed part of life as indeed is getting up. But sometimes enough is enough. I cut someone out of my life earlier in the year & after the angst & the many ripples it caused ( & still does to an extent ) feel so much better for it.
    Hope that makes sense.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Fortune_Smiles
    Fortune_Smiles Posts: 5,116 Forumite
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    Very resonant for me too at the moment.

    Fortune x
  • Isn't it odd how many of us with totally diverse scenarios are dealing with similar issues. Thanks for the link Greying, it resonated with me. Btw, did you midwife also tell you that it'd be grand?

    OH and brothers finally got their finger out and sorted out a gift for the parentals today. One less thing to fret about. Very little work was done here today but I did remember to transfer dd's birthday money to her account for tomorrow. Not sure how I have two children in their 30s while I still feel, in spirit, that I'm still in my 20s. Also took a chance and made a TT of just over £5 to the mortgage. Hopefully by September with weddings, birthdays and anniversaries gone we will establish financial plans going forward.

    Anyhow, despite having done little, I'm shattered so am heading to bed.
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • Greying_Pilgrim
    Greying_Pilgrim Posts: 6,615 Forumite
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    Isn't it odd how many of us with totally diverse scenarios are dealing with similar issues. Thanks for the link Greying, it resonated with me. Btw, did you midwife also tell you that it'd be grand?

    Not that I recall, but she was Lovely with a capital 'L' :D And I do remember the 'keep going' bit :rotfl:So glad she was allocated to us :D

    Greying X
    Pounds for Panes £7,305/£10,000 - start date Dec 2023
     
    Grocery Spend August 2025 £95.97/£300 
    Non-food spend August 2025 £3.75/£50
    Bulk Fund August 2025 £0/£10 
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