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  • I am enjoying the time together. Shes getting curry tonight as a treat/thank you. Its really nice taking someone to a train fair.

    She does seem comfy, never seen her as dressed down as she has been.
  • mcja
    mcja Posts: 4,077 Forumite
    Just take it slowly, your speed. Please talk to her about your past before you end up really involved.

    Trust her, and let her in. She sounds like a good 'un, as do you.xx
    “Listen earnestly to anything your children want to tell you, no matter what. If you don't listen eagerly to the little stuff when they are little, they won't tell you the big stuff when they are big, because to them all of it has always been big stuff.”
  • I really do find it hard to let people in. Is that really bad
  • paulineb_2
    paulineb_2 Posts: 6,489 Forumite
    SimonSays wrote: »
    Or she could be scared of all the Barrys, Keiths and Malcoms that were there. Infact I was scared of them too haha

    She was looking at some of the models and looked confused. Glad she can accept that too. As I do enjoy my clubs and groups.

    Malcolm. :rotfl:

    Fine name, I know a very lovely Malcolm.
  • paulineb_2
    paulineb_2 Posts: 6,489 Forumite
    SimonSays wrote: »
    I really do find it hard to let people in. Is that really bad

    No its not

    But if you go through life looking for reasons not to get close to people you might end up being a lot more lonely than you need to be or want to be.
  • True, Its just nice sharing things with someone. Although not nice tripping over her things
  • Bogof_Babe
    Bogof_Babe Posts: 10,803 Forumite
    Simon, forgive me for digressing from your dilemma, but I have to ask... what the heck is a train fair? Is it model railway sets, or real trains?

    I only ask because if it's real trains it sounds like the sort of thing OH and I would enjoy, being part-time 'anoraks' :rotfl:.

    I can only agree with the others, it should be staring you in the face that this lass wants to have a proper relationship with you. It will hurt her greatly if you back off now, so please think it through, and be honest with her.
    :D I haven't bogged off yet, and I ain't no babe :D

  • This one is for model trains, they have layouts and stalls where you can obviously buy.

    I guess you would enjoy rail fest.


    The lady in question come in an come sat next to me and put my arm round her so she could cuddle up before her bath.
  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    SimonSays wrote: »
    The lady in question come in an come sat next to me and put my arm round her so she could cuddle up before her bath.

    While you were typing??

    Not sure why you're posting so much when she's around.
  • HPoirot
    HPoirot Posts: 1,022 Forumite
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    SimonSays wrote: »

    The lady in question come in an come sat next to me and put my arm round her so she could cuddle up before her bath.

    Grief, it's hotting up rather alarmingly where you are Simon :rotfl:gives all of us with frozen toe a nice warm feel reading you! All the best ;).
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