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I am quite happy to support them both if we get that far down the line. She won't loose any csa money will she?
I believe this sums up what I have read. You are starting to develop feelings for someone, these feelings are reciprocated, you are nervous about the future yet you are still thinking about being able to look after her a her child.
You sound like a good man, in an early relationship (courting I think it used to be called) a lady who feels the same. Just relax, and see how it goes. No pressure and remember every relationship starts somewhere.
(although this seems particularly lovely start to what is hopefully a happy future together)“Listen earnestly to anything your children want to tell you, no matter what. If you don't listen eagerly to the little stuff when they are little, they won't tell you the big stuff when they are big, because to them all of it has always been big stuff.”0 -
Thanks guys
I am enjoying the present, its nice seeing her happy. Its really good. Not seen her smile as much as she has the last few days. Not had this many texts in a long while.
One quick question though
I'm making her, her favourite spag bol. I bought one of those pasta makers got a recipe off the internet to make up some pasta.
But.. How long do I cook it for. I can't find the internet site again.0 -
It will cook very quickly, about 1-2 minutes in boiling water but the best way to know whether it's ready is to fish a bit out and try it.0
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Thanks!
Just want her to have something nice to come back too.0 -
Your keen making your own pasta, general rule it should have a slight bite to it and apparently if you chuck it at the wall and it sticks it's done :rotfl:The most potent weapon of the oppressor is the mind of the oppressed. Steve Biko0
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Throwing it at the walls works!!“Listen earnestly to anything your children want to tell you, no matter what. If you don't listen eagerly to the little stuff when they are little, they won't tell you the big stuff when they are big, because to them all of it has always been big stuff.”0
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Aw am glad things are going well. Good luck
HBS x"I believe in ordinary acts of bravery, in the courage that drives one person to stand up for another."
"It's easy to know what you're against, quite another to know what you're for."
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I'm starting to cook it for her now. I hope she likes it
If I come back reporting 999 has had to be called. You know I failed haha0 -
I've come out of long-term lurkdom to post that I think this is the loveliest thread I've read in ages. How sweet.0
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Shes eaten it. Still alive so something must have been right
I now get hugs when she comes back to mine.
I even had a radox bath run for her so she could relax0
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