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  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Pastures,...

    Just remember its not you its them.

    Why did you go there? I'd have stayed on my tod in control of my own emir ment eating whatever lettuce I damn well wanted.

    Guess you wanted to. see your parent though.
  • tomterm8
    tomterm8 Posts: 5,892 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I've got no advice on that score. In my experience if you get through Christmas without one set of relatives killing the other set you're doing pretty well.
    “The ideas of debtor and creditor as to what constitutes a good time never coincide.”
    ― P.G. Wodehouse, Love Among the Chickens
  • LydiaJ
    LydiaJ Posts: 8,083 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Mortgage-free Glee!
    Writing a Christmas letter... wanted to know when the last hamster died and when we got the new one. Nothing mentioned on the calendar, don't keep a diary... NPT to the rescue. Both the demise of the old hamster and the acquisition of the new one had been duly chronicled and could be searched for and the date discovered!

    Oh, and I dreamt about you lot last night. I was trying to buy this house and posting about it to get advice from you all, but PN was warning me that it would be silly to buy a house on an island to which the ferry only went twice a day. I decided that since it was only a small stretch of sea to cross, I should get a boat, and was sorting out a boat and a trailer, so that I could tow the boat when driving, and then put the car in the boat to get across the water to get to the house and back. I was wondering if this was really practicable when I remembered I've already been in the house nearly 3 years, and was troubled not to be able to remember how I've been managing the sea crossing. When I woke up I realised immediately that I live on mainland Britain, but thought for a few minutes that I was on the coast, and had to wake up properly in order to remember that I'm in a landlocked county!
    Do you know anyone who's bereaved? Point them to https://www.AtaLoss.org which does for bereavement support what MSE does for financial services, providing links to support organisations relevant to the circumstances of the loss & the local area. (Link permitted by forum team)
    Tyre performance in the wet deteriorates rapidly below about 3mm tread - change yours when they get dangerous, not just when they are nearly illegal (1.6mm).
    Oh, and wear your seatbelt. My kids are only alive because they were wearing theirs when somebody else was driving in wet weather with worn tyres.
    :)
  • tomterm8
    tomterm8 Posts: 5,892 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    When I click on someone's name, and try to look at their profile I am getting the message that this user is not registered. Weird.
    “The ideas of debtor and creditor as to what constitutes a good time never coincide.”
    ― P.G. Wodehouse, Love Among the Chickens
  • LydiaJ
    LydiaJ Posts: 8,083 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Mortgage-free Glee!
    The thanks button is producing error messages for me, although it does seem to add thanks as well.

    ETA ... and also doing the "not registered" thing tomterm mentions.
    Do you know anyone who's bereaved? Point them to https://www.AtaLoss.org which does for bereavement support what MSE does for financial services, providing links to support organisations relevant to the circumstances of the loss & the local area. (Link permitted by forum team)
    Tyre performance in the wet deteriorates rapidly below about 3mm tread - change yours when they get dangerous, not just when they are nearly illegal (1.6mm).
    Oh, and wear your seatbelt. My kids are only alive because they were wearing theirs when somebody else was driving in wet weather with worn tyres.
    :)
  • PasturesNew
    PasturesNew Posts: 70,698 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    michaels wrote: »
    Have you ever suggested t...

    I just keep my head down and accept I can never win. Always been like it; she was the spoilt one
  • PasturesNew
    PasturesNew Posts: 70,698 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    ...parent ...
    That's the bottom line of it.

    Then there's the whole "guilt of Xmas" stuff that families put on you, with expectations that you'll do X Y and Z etc....
  • LydiaJ
    LydiaJ Posts: 8,083 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Mortgage-free Glee!
    I just keep my head down and accept I can never win. Always been like it; she was the spoilt one

    Unfortunately, keeping one's head down and accepting one can never win is the behaviour most likely to train hypercritical people to get even more hypercritical.

    Appeasement ... didn't work for Chamberlain, doesn't work in families. :(
    Do you know anyone who's bereaved? Point them to https://www.AtaLoss.org which does for bereavement support what MSE does for financial services, providing links to support organisations relevant to the circumstances of the loss & the local area. (Link permitted by forum team)
    Tyre performance in the wet deteriorates rapidly below about 3mm tread - change yours when they get dangerous, not just when they are nearly illegal (1.6mm).
    Oh, and wear your seatbelt. My kids are only alive because they were wearing theirs when somebody else was driving in wet weather with worn tyres.
    :)
  • PasturesNew
    PasturesNew Posts: 70,698 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    LydiaJ wrote: »
    The thanks button is producing error messages for me, although it does seem to add thanks as well.
    Me too. Somebody's been fiddling with code when they shouldn't have.
  • PasturesNew
    PasturesNew Posts: 70,698 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    LydiaJ wrote: »
    Writing a Christmas letter...
    That's a posh alert; it's what the middle classes do apparently.

    First/last/only time I've ever come across one was in 1982 or so, when my boss wanted me to type up his family letter. I thought it was odd then......
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