Forensic Vet Report

wealdroam

hachette wrote: »

I have e-mailed today the insurance brokers and gave them until this Friday. The response was quick saying they have passed on the message.
I think I gave them enough time and I cannot have this hanging over me any more. One way or the other will be be known in 3 days.

What?

It is only six days ago that you asked on here how much time you should give them.

You were advised:

somethingcorporate wrote: »

If you're now imposing a deadline (and haven't before) it still needs to be reasonable. I suggest that 28 days from you providing a requirement of a deadline is reasonable regardless that they have already sat on it for over a month.

Unfortunately, if you haven't already made a time-based demand it does put you in a weaker position. Get a deadline in now with consequences and then if they do not meet your deadline then take court action. 3 days from now is not reasonable, 2 weeks as an absolute minimum is and 4 is even better.

You responded to that advice by agreeing:

hachette wrote: »

Yes maybe you are right I have waited that long so give them little more time but I cannot focus on anything more positive until I bring this to the end never will until they will admit to the wrong doing

Did you actually give them a deadline on 8 January, or is the email you sent today the first hint they have had of any deadline?

hachette

wealdroam wrote: »

What?

It is only six days ago that you asked on here how much time you should give them.

You were advised:

You responded to that advice by agreeing:

Did you actually give them a deadline on 8 January, or is the email you sent today the first hint they have had of any deadline?

They had the forensic vet report on 28/11/13 I gave them all the bills they have asked for. My deadline is 21/1/13. If I don't give deadline this is going to go on for ever.

Money-Saving-King

hollydays wrote: »

Only thing I know about grieving is there is no right or wrong way to grieve.

I'd disagree with that. Part of grieving is letting old emotions die down & clear up. There is without a shadow of a doubt people who don't do this in other words become obsessed with blame are just prolonging any grieving. I know of a similar situation to this but with someone who is emotionally strong and part of that strength comes with being able to find a place in the heart to forgive.

hachette

hachette wrote: »

They had the forensic vet report on 28/11/13 I gave them all the bills they have asked for. My deadline is 21/1/13. If I don't give deadline this is going to go on for ever.

No I have not given them deadline before but now I felt I had to otherwise this will never end

wealdroam

hachette wrote: »

No I have not given them deadline before but now I felt I had to otherwise this will never end

So you get advice that 14 to 28 days is a reasonable deadline, but get the deadline in straight away.

You agree with that.

You then wait six days.

You then give a three day deadline.

Quite frankly, I am surprised people are still willing to give you advice.

hachette

wealdroam wrote: »

So you get advice that 14 to 28 days is a reasonable deadline, but get the deadline in straight away.

You agree with that.

You then wait six days.

You then give a three day deadline.

Quite frankly, I am surprised people are still willing to give you advice.

I never thought deadline was a must. They must realise they took more time to deal with this then any other insurers would.

hollydays

Money-Saving-King wrote: »

I'd disagree with that. Part of grieving is letting old emotions die down & clear up. There is without a shadow of a doubt people who don't do this in other words become obsessed with blame are just prolonging any grieving. I know of a similar situation to this but with someone who is emotionally strong and part of that strength comes with being able to find a place in the heart to forgive.

And who are you to say how long , or "prolonged " , as you put it , grieving should be?
Prolonged suggests something that's taking longer than it should do.

hachette

They sat for 2 months on my claim and if you consider the fact that they had it since September and thought it will go away. I feel I have given them more then enought time.

hachette

Money-Saving-King wrote: »

I'd disagree with that. Part of grieving is letting old emotions die down & clear up. There is without a shadow of a doubt people who don't do this in other words become obsessed with blame are just prolonging any grieving. I know of a similar situation to this but with someone who is emotionally strong and part of that strength comes with being able to find a place in the heart to forgive.

Forgive is one thing forgetting is an other.

keyser666

hachette wrote: »

They sat for 2 months on my claim and if you consider the fact that they had it since September and thought it will go away. I feel I have given them more then enought time.

You have not listened one bit have you and this is advice from people still willing to help you and give advice !!!!ing beggars belief, really hope you learn a lesson from this, oh and they won't come back in 3 days