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Family cut themselves out of my son's life

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  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    OK - keep calm - she isn't going to break the door down!
    turn the radio/tv up a bit and take wiglet into a room as far away as you can get and WAIT for the police. Only when you are sure they are there do you open the door. and remain calm! try to keep things low key for your little one.
    Keep posting if you can!
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    she CANT have received the letter so whats set her off do you think?
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    maybe you cant post right now wiggy - that's ok! I assume you are cuddling wiglet! The police wont be long hun, it may seem ages but my bet is that you are not the only one in the building to have called them.
    It will be ok sweety!
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    Don't assume you will hear sirens - they may come in very quietly as they don't know exactly what the situation is. But, they WILL stop her hammering and knocking - don't open the door until THEY knock and let you know they are there - they will shout and identify themselves!
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    If it suddenly goes quiet don't open the door - mum could just be bluffing she has left.
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    I should imagine the police have arrived by now and you are busy dealing with them - if not just keep WAITING! its Friday night and a busy one for the cops.
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    it WILL be ok hun!
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    I will wait for you to post back now wiggy - the police MUST have arrived by now in response to an emergency call.
    keep calm!
  • tiger_eyes
    tiger_eyes Posts: 1,006 Forumite
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    wiggywoo9 wrote: »
    Quite scared, she is on my doorstep. Ignoring it and have called police. She keeps hammering at door and knocking letterbox.

    You're doing brilliantly. You are so brave and so calm. The police should take care of everything for you. Stay safe.
  • Police still not here. She gave up knocking and yelling after 1/2 hour, is now outside block calling me and texting me. I've just blacklisted her cos I just don't want anymore. Hope the police arrive soon, its been 35 mins! She was here with my sister and her baby, both mum and sister yelling and knocking. Don't know what to think. Feel sick, shaking and worried.
    Up and onwards to the future!

    :j
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