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any advice would be lovely :)

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  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
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    hello darling.

    1. go to glastonbury. Why should this waste of space fella ruin one of the biggest events of the year. Spend a bit of time in the healing fields too ;) itll pay off.

    2. Glad you are out of the relationship and the flat. he sounds horrendous.

    Take care of yourself, and just out him behind you what an utter scumbag :mad:
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • Little_Pickle
    Little_Pickle Posts: 3,022 Forumite
    thanks guys...
    *sniff*
  • Hiya LP

    (((((((((((((((((big hugs)))))))))))))))

    Go to Glastonbury!! Dont let him dictate your life any more.....you go with your friends and have a brilliant time.

    I must admit, I think you dad's suggestion at intensive driving lessons is a really good idea. As much as you dont want to stay to long at your mum and dads, if you take the lessons, pass your test and buy a cheapy car, your options are far wider as to where you live.

    Its never great when you have to go back home after you have been able to live as your own person.........unfortunately I dont have a magic answer as to how you could make that better, I think you just have to grit your teeth. Just remember you can always come on here and rant to us.

    I'm so sorry to hear you are so upset today. I wish I could come and give you a big hug, so virtual ones will have to do. Stay and chat today, lets see if some of us can take your mind off things for a bit:confused:
    I also remember the words of my friends, but I would rather have enemies than friends like you :p

    :p would like to make it known that ZubeZubes avvy is a DHN, she's not dancing :o
  • Js_Other_Half
    Js_Other_Half Posts: 3,116 Forumite
    <<hugs>>

    I'm with your Dad on this one too. They want what's best for you - and for the sake of an extra couple of weeks it'll make a huge difference in where you could live, and will be a confidence boost to boot?

    I understand not wanting to go back to your parents home for any length of time, but imagine if one of them needed you - you'd be more than happy for them to stay with you whilst they sorted themselves out?

    Try to go to Glastonbury, it'll distract you if nothing else.
    The IVF worked;DS born 2006.
  • GreenNinja
    GreenNinja Posts: 601 Forumite
    Hi Little Pickle,

    Good for you for getting this guy out of your life.

    For the record I think you have done the right thing moving back in with your parents rather than stay living with him for any longer.

    Go to Glastonbury and have a great time with your friends and worry about other issues when you get back.

    X
  • nats3006
    nats3006 Posts: 1,627 Forumite
    dont worry we are always here no matter what time, well some people are on here all the time, but most important this site is never empty, so if you feel the need to chat you go ahead, xxxx
    "Have you ever noticed that if you rearranged the letters in mother in law, they come out to Woman Hitler?":p :p:p

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    Can you breathe out of your nose and mouth at the same time?:cool:

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  • djdido2
    djdido2 Posts: 3,446 Forumite
    Stay strong!! You deserve better!

    (((Hugs))))

    dido
    I'm not a "SINGLE" mum, I'm a "DOUBLE" mum!:D
  • Little_Pickle
    Little_Pickle Posts: 3,022 Forumite
    well, here I go.. friends are await my arrival and after a shaky start this morning, I'm off. train leaves in 2 hours.
    Am very nervous I'll bump into him... 150,000 people I know I will!

    *deep breath*

    I'll let you know how I get on...
    much love,
    LP
    xox
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    well, here I go.. friends are await my arrival and after a shaky start this morning, I'm off. train leaves in 2 hours.
    Am very nervous I'll bump into him... 150,000 people I know I will!

    *deep breath*

    I'll let you know how I get on...
    much love,
    LP
    xox

    if you are anytihng like me you wont remember part of it :o

    Incidentally, I met my OH at glast 2 years ago- its our aniversary today :D

    you never know what diamonds youll find in the mud :D just go, have a fab time and have a pear cider for me wont ya ;)
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • Little_Pickle
    Little_Pickle Posts: 3,022 Forumite
    I will!

    I met my ex at a festival 2 years ago, so i won't be doing that one again!!!

    I'll have a cider for you!
    much love,
    LP
    xox
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