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any advice would be lovely :)
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God he also sounds like my ex! It's exciting when it's good but when it's bad it's very bad. Looking back now I don't know how I put up with the drama. When I met my now husband I couldn't believe how easy and pleasant life could be without an attention-seeking drama-queen involved. I'd jump ship now and you'll find someone who is more suitable long-term.
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Would you, in your wildest dreams, behave towards him the way he behaves towards you? Why does he continually punish you? Is he getting his own back because he hasn't got a bit on the side now and that's all your fault?
Why haven't you thrown his mobile away?
Sometimes it helps to sit down and write out a list of the benefits and disadvantages of something, to find out which is the greater.
Things can't be easy for you just now, best wishes..................
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Its amazing how many ex's he sounds like, dunno if you have noticed but they are ALL ex's!!!"Have you ever noticed that if you rearranged the letters in mother in law, they come out to Woman Hitler?":p
If money doesn't grow on trees then why do banks have branches?:D
Can you breathe out of your nose and mouth at the same time?:cool:
Why don't the hairs on your arms get split ends?:mad:0 -
The phone thing really bothers me....that and not getting in touch with you today to at least say we'll talk when we both arrive home.
I think you know what you need to do... don't stick around too long...sometimes the mud from being a doormat can take along time to wash out.;) You're worth more than that...Member of the first Mortgage Free in 3 challenge, no.19
Balance 19th April '07 = minus £27,640
Balance 1st November '09 = mortgage paid off with £1903 left over. Title deeds are now ours.0 -
so you've been together for 2 years, and he was cheating on you for 18 months of that?
quite what is so good about this man? why are some people so determined to be with anyone rather than be single :shrug:0 -
Hi
I have been where you are but have child involved. In the end, the doubt, him constantly going out and on his mobile drove me insane, to the point where after several big arguments, i had enough, packed his bags and told him to leave. I didnt trust him, and no matter how much it hurt, and it REALLY did, for my own sanity i had to put an end to it.
After my time on the rebound, we briefly tried again when he was living somewhere else btu nothign had changed. It was only when we had no contact ( he saw our daughter once a week) that i moved on and met someone else that treated me like a queen. That finished as i decided i wasnt ready for a relationship, that me and my ex got talking ( he now lives in another country!) and are trying again, BUT only because he is a much better and nicer person, and it is now him that is insecure not me, i now take no crap, stand my ground, and when im not happy about something we talk about it, we actually talk about things now! If it deosnt work out, i also know i can survive, AS CAN YOU!
Be strong, talk to him straight, be strong if you have to.£2 Savers club £0/£150
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its only now cause we talk properly, that we find all this stuff out about each other and things that were bothering both of us that we never talked about before! Sometimes nomatter how hard it is, a break maybe worth it.£2 Savers club £0/£150
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Sounds to me (OP) that he is picking arguments to push you away and make you leave. It makes it easier on him, especially if he thinks he gets to come home from work and the deed is done.
The may be doing this because of another affair or for other reasons.
Its half 9 now, how did your evening go?Mummy to two girls, 4 & 1, been at home for four years, struggling to contend with the terrifying thought of returning to work.0 -
Fill out the following quiz as if you were your boyfriend OP: http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personality_disorder_test.mv
It sounds like he has mental health issues that he needs to be willing to realise and deal with. If he is not willing to work through the problems in your relationship (his embarrassing public behaviour, deceiving you, cheating on you etc) then what choice do you really have if you want your life to be happier in the long run?
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Fill out the following quiz as if you were your boyfriend OP: http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personality_disorder_test.mv
It sounds like he has mental health issues that he needs to be willing to realise and deal with. If he is not willing to work through the problems in your relationship (his embarrassing public behaviour, deceiving you, cheating on you etc) then what choice do you really have if you want your life to be happier in the long run?
Best wishes for you x.
Just did it myself took ages :rotfl: :rotfl:"Have you ever noticed that if you rearranged the letters in mother in law, they come out to Woman Hitler?":p
If money doesn't grow on trees then why do banks have branches?:D
Can you breathe out of your nose and mouth at the same time?:cool:
Why don't the hairs on your arms get split ends?:mad:0
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