The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

claire16c

Good luck t2d!x

isla_red

Sending super sticky thoughts t2d!

tea_lover

If OH comes up with one more cr.appy excuse for not having sex I swear I'll just find someone else that will do it.

onestep

Hugs TeaLover. I know that feeling..

And keeping everything crossed for everyone having a BIG week sticky vibes to you all!

AFM.. I'm cross. Cross that I've got a credit card which is too big. And (whispering, as I'm a bad horrible person) that DH has crappy sperm and so I can't have another baby that's ours. I've got all this anger and I can't tell him about it. Can't tell adoption people about it. Can't tell anyone else as it would be disloyal. TF for you lot!

time2deal

Whattodonow wrote: »

Yay t2d! Any news from peonie yet?

Well rang clinic and they think I have mild OHSS but still ok for weds. TMI alert! Have not had a poo since EC and don't think these pessaies are agreeing with me. Might try "alternative destination"

My clinic was clear that the cyclogest was to be, umm, applied, via the alternative destination. It's quite grim... but efficient and no leakage.

The things we do.

time2deal

How is the adoption planning going onestep? I know you were taking a break until January, but have you decided how to move forward?

onestep

We're doing an evening prep course in Feb about the PAR (prospective adopters report) .. I'm still unsure but I firmly believe I need to go through the process to be able to decide (if that makes sense). I saw the c4 programme about adoption parties last wk, it made me cry so I'm obviously not able to let it go just yet

Wonder_Woman

Not TTC related but a close family member has died today and also found out that another only has a few months to live. Life doesn't even seem as though its really happening at the moment if that makes sense. Unbelievably heartbroken and just don't know where to turn. Seriously, will someone just give us a break because I'm not sure how much more I can take.


I honestly am thinking of you all though and wishing everyone so much luck for their treatment. T2D, I saw you had your transfer today, I hope you are doing ok.

chickpea

Congrats on your PUPO status TTD. You should get a badge for the tube or something..Good luck trying to concentrate on anything else for the next 2w (is it that long until OTD?)

Nice to see you on here Onestep, even if it is for a moan! I'm not sure how I'd feel in your boat. Is there still a possibility of a natural BFP, even if slim?

With us, it's all me and my dodgy eggs. Got my blood test results back today and at least I don't have thrombophilia - so it's not sticky blood that caused the M/C's. Also have optimal liver/kidney/blood glucose/cholesterol. Just goes to show that my low-carb/high protein meat/egg/yoghurt heavy regime is no bad thing, if my test results are anything to go by. (I haven't eaten fruit for a year!)

Been drinking too much recently though, if my hand tremor today is anything to go by. Time to get on the wagon again!

xx

lisawood78

Oh blimey ladies!!

Lots going on.


Sticky thoughts for all embryos snuggling in for to their new homes!!
WW i don't know what to say, I hope fate, or luck or whatever it is that controls these third can give you a break and let good stuff come in your direction, in bundles, quickly!!!

Only a quick one from me.

Hubby had to do his sample today for freezing for surrogacy. It didn't hit me til we left that this sample was going to be the one they use with my fresh eggs to make them into the embryo that we are 'lending out'
As it is surrogacy they have to freeze and quarantine sperm for 6 months or 6 weeks if the fast Test is used as hubby has to have a special test that they use for detecting changes in genetics that are present with serious infections (HIV, Hep C etc) as normal blood tests don't detect them if they are 'new infections'
This is of course because even tho baby will be genetically ours we are both classed as donors for the purpose of the surrogacy.

So that's done and one our surrogate and her partner have to do their tests and counselling! Eeek it's all go.

Good luck lovely ladies x