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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • Peonie
    Peonie Posts: 1,471 Forumite
    Hugs PM. Derby good luck. When are you going to test?
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  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Derby best of luck to you.

    Thanks Peonie.
  • That is awful PM - I can't believe your FS hasn't called back after all this time! Huge hugs to you. Praying for better news for you on Monday xxx
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    WW thanks, im totally worn out with all the bleeding :(
  • vseviour
    vseviour Posts: 137 Forumite
    WW, I would speak to someone just to check you're ok, I was fine after egg collection like Derby and Rowingirl, shopping the next day, just sleepy from anesthetic. Keeping an eye on you all x
  • SewIt_2
    SewIt_2 Posts: 271 Forumite
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    Aw, PM that is really frustrating for you. I'd be done in too with bleeding going on that long. Good luck for Monday. Ask why they didn't call back though.

    AFM we have a wedding tomorrow, the wedding that back in January I said to myself that I'd be pregnant! Ha ha what an idiot I am!
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Sewit it, I hope you enjoy the weeding, think weve all done that hoping for a bump by a certain point.

    Tbh its often the way that i never get a call back, not really expecting good news on mon after all the bleeding.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    ww keep a good eye on yourself.
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    Had to go to the maxillofacial surgeon today because my wisdom teeth need to come out. All well and good but its in our local hospital and there are pregnant women and newborns everywhere and everywhere you look are signs directing you to the labour ward. Then I got sent for an xray and the sonographer was in so was in the waiting room with all the pregnant people, and there were scan photos on the walls. Anyway, they're going to torture me by removing my teeth under local anesthetic which I'm not over the moon about as he said they'll have to cut into my gums and there might be further nerve damage. He also said I'm on the wrong drugs for my condition and now I have to go and see some consultant or other about it and I'm confused and wondering if I'm on these ones because of the whole fertility thing.

    As well as all this, work have started making noises about my absence when I had the bad pain so now I need to talk to occupational health even though I had a sick note from the doctor for it because you're only allowed 10 days, and if you're off over the weekend, they count that. Arrgh.

    Also my sister is acting very strangely, has some cancer palliative care drugs in her handbag which she claims her doctor prescribed for something else, and I'm worried her cancer is back. She's a bit secretive and didn't tell anyone the first time until she went in for surgery so if it is back, she probably wouldn't tell us anyway.

    And if you managed to stay with me through that, you deserve a medal.

    WW - hope you're ok. Congratulations on the embies.

    Derby, fingers crossed that AF stays away.

    PM, sorry about the bleeding.

    Sewit - I was really hoping to be pregnant now so I could avoid a wedding early next year. Hahahaha.

    Well, apparently, my friend who paid for a psychic baby reading for me wasn't happy with wasting her money on one reading, and I've just, this second, got another one in my inbox from a different psychic person, predicting I'd either conceive, find out or give birth to a son in December. She said he'd be 5'10" which suggests it's not my 6'2" husband's as the shortest guy on my side of the family is 6' and most are well over 6'4". :rotfl::rotfl:I really hope my friend is done now otherwise I'm going to have to tell her about the sperm.

    Don't know if anyone has seen "The Watch" but we caught it earlier in the week and in it, Ben Stiller's character confides that he's been for fertility tests and has a low sperm count and is too scared to tell his wife and Vince Vaughn's character says "“She married you, not your dead jizz!” - this has become the mantra in our house.
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  • Derby2
    Derby2 Posts: 292 Forumite
    Morning!

    Are you ET'ing today WW?
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