The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

Wonder_Woman

Unfortunately not, got the call just now. Desperately wanted it to be today but 3 of the 6 embies have not made it and they want to observe the other 3 until Monday.

DH spoke to them and didn't ask a single question :mad::mad::mad: so I don't know exactly what's happened to the other 3 but I assume they just didn't divide properly or something as they had fertilised normally which makes me feel a bit upset (cue tears).

Also had a row with DH over his ineptitude on the phone. He knew I wanted him to ask about my symptoms as I have been feeling quite poorly and would've liked some reassurance but he didn't bother. Thoroughly fed up with it all today

How are you feeling Derby?

Part_Mouse

Code huge hugs to you, youve got so much going on haven't you.

WW huge hugs to you to,So sorry to hear 3 embies didnt make it, got everything crossed for the other 3 for you.Sorry to hear your dh didnt ask about your symptomes

angeltreats

Oh WW men are just so useless, I know exactly what you mean.

Hope the embies have a good and very productive weekend ready for ET on Monday.

I have kicked off my "must lose sh1tloads of weight very quickly" campaign by running four miles this morning. Then I remembered I've got a dinner party to go to tonight and I have to bring dessert, so three courses plus booze will ruin all my good work so far. Ah well. Might not have a second helping of pud.

Tea, where are you? We miss you. Hope you're ok x

Code I love that movie and have also used the same line on hubby. Although obviously I would be happier if he did not have dead jizz. Really hope your sister is ok.

codemonkey

WW, so sorry about the 3 embies that didn't make it. Keeping my fingers crossed for the other 3 - hopefully they're having a party, dividing happily and will be ready for ET on Monday.

angeltreats - well done on the run. I went in the huff with DH for being useless today (lying in bed, not getting up to take the dog out or help with the housework, ignoring me when I offered to make some food and being a grouch) so I just ate his pringles and made peanut butter cups because I love them and he hates them. I doubt I'd lose enough weight for the appointment anyway.

As for my sister, I suppose we'll have to wait and see. We're not especially close because there's a huge age gap. I talk to her kids more than her, but she's still my big sister. Also my parents are getting a bit frail and I think losing a child (even if that child is 50) would kill them.

Come back tea lover!!

purcy81

Hi ladies

hugs for losing 3 embies ww I have everything crossed for your other 3 x

Hugs code I hope your sister will be Ok lol at making treats your OH hates, I think we've all done that once or twice!

Hugs for all the bleeding PM x

How are you holding up derby?

Well done on the run angel treats you must be quite fit to start out with a 4 mile run!

Tealover if you're reading sending you hugs please come back xx

AFM feels reeeaaally odd to actually be in the tww having actually bd at the right time, I'd almost forgotten this odd nervous/hopeful sensation and I'm finding it a bit peculiar. Weird huh?

Speaking of weird I also had a dream a few nights ago where I had a beautiful baby girl, she was so good and perfect and then she was suddenly gone and I spent the rest of the dream franticly looking for her while everyone blamed me for losing her.

Really shook me up truth be told as it was a little close to the mark as I always blame myself for our 2 mc. We'll see what the tests say I suppose, my swab came back normal so that was good at least and having my "day 21" blood drawn on Tuesday still no scan date yet but the doctor said it shouldn't be too long. She did ask me at the appointment about facial hair so I wonder if she's thinking pcos?

hugs to all x

time2deal

WW I think Monday et is a good sign. It means you still have three strong embryos, rather than only one clear leader. They put them back early when it's clear you won't have much choice. So the longer it takes the better chance they have a strong one and pick the right one. good luck!

I'm a bit poorly at the moment and struggling with energy for some reason. Awake last night with a temperature, and then slept half the day but still knackered now. I can't quite clear this dose of thrush and with dh also sickk we are a right pair. When I just about was finally getting to sleep he would have a coughing fit!

No other news. Sorry for lack of personals but hugs to all. And fingers crossed for Monday Derby.

purcy81

Hugs t2d I hope you feel better soon x

teaandcakeordeath

WW I remember reading something about success rates and day of ET. Here's the link if you're interested. Like T2D said sounds promising though I appreciate it is frustrating for you. http://www.hfea.gov.uk/blastocyst-transfer.html

T2D Hope you feel better tomorrow.

Have a nice night everyone. xxx

Part_Mouse

Derby I hope your holding up ok and ww.

T2d I hope your feeling better tommorow.

Purcy hugs for bad dreams.

littleme82

Hi ladies

Not had chance to read back properly as I'm on my phone. I've just changed my bedsheets and the cream mattress sheet is PURPLE?!

I'm not purple, I don't have purple hair or wear purple clothes. What's going on?

It's really freaking me out

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