The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

tea_lover

Code, absolutely could have written your post about icsi. I know the odds are rubbish, but apparently we're not meant to mention that.

cwtw

codemonkey wrote: »

Just feeling a bit sorry for myself. I think its cause every time I turn on the tv, I see a Christmas advert showing how fantastic it is to have kids.

Snap! Was at a Christmas fair today. Why does it feel that I should only really be allowed to celebrate if I have a baby, which I patently don't have?
Urgh, when will someone invent a crystal ball so that we all know when/what/if is going to happen for all of us?!

Good luck to everyone with embies on board. I have everything crossed for you.

codemonkey

cwtw wrote: »

Snap! Was at a Christmas fair today. Why does it feel that I should only really be allowed to celebrate if I have a baby, which I patently don't have?
Urgh, when will someone invent a crystal ball so that we all know when/what/if is going to happen for all of us?!

Good luck to everyone with embies on board. I have everything crossed for you.

I know. DH was mocking me cause I bought a Christmas stocking for the dog but I really wanted to do something different.

Like I've said before if I knew for sure it wasn't going to happen then I'd be devastated but I'd get used to it in time. If I knew it was definitely going to happen, but in 2 years or something, I'd be ok with waiting. It's this not knowing thing that's hurting me.

Still, never mind, the baby psychic said I'd pregnant from my January cycle and would give birth to a boy on 4th November. So errm, bring on the fertile man :rotfl::rotfl:

Part_Mouse

Hi all

Had an awful weekend, my mums in hosp and having surgery tommorow, she might need a bypass but isn't in good health anyway and just cos life keeps dumping on me iv'e started bleeding here we go again.

Spent near 6 hrs today traveling to get to my mum at the hosp for a flying visit before coming back

codemonkey

Part_Mouse wrote: »

Hi all

Had an awful weekend, my mums in hosp and having surgery tommorow, she might need a bypass but isn't in good health anyway and just cos life keeps dumping on me iv'e started bleeding here we go again.

Spent near 6 hrs today traveling to get to my mum at the hosp for a flying visit before coming back

Oh no. That's terrible PM. Hope your mum gets better soon and the surgery all goes well :grouphug:

Part_Mouse

codemonkey wrote: »

Oh no. That's terrible PM. Hope your mum gets better soon and the surgery all goes well :grouphug:

thought we were going to lose her before I got there, we live 1.5 hrs away by public transport and have no car. I just hope they can fix things without a bypass all this constant stress isn't helping things, even the injections arn't holding back the bleeding and after 13 days of inecting I don't think theres a follice otherwise I wouldn't be bleeding

codemonkey

Part_Mouse wrote: »

thought we were going to lose her before I got there, we live 1.5 hrs away by public transport and have no car. I just hope they can fix things without a bypass all this constant stress isn't helping things, even the injections arn't holding back the bleeding and after 13 days of inecting I don't think theres a follice otherwise I wouldn't be bleeding

That's terrible PM, I'll keep my fingers crossed for her. I can imagine that the stress isn't helping! Hugs for the bleeding too. Why is life so unfair?

Part_Mouse

code thanks, life just keeps sh*tting all over me time and time again got my mum through the cancer and so much surgery and shes got heart failure shes all that iv'e got left and im so far away im just sooo tired of it all. I can';t see these injections ever giving me a BFP either

tea_lover

Oh pm, what a cr.appy day!! Really hope your mum's ok and that tomorrow brings better news, thinking of you xx.

Part_Mouse

Tea thanks, got a scan and bloods tommorow myself and then rush up to see my mum guess im going to have to up the dose again and wait 10 days for the lining to do. FS is going away in a month aswell