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Dont want to marry in white!

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  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,337 Forumite
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    im not an extravagant type of person so the traditional meringue style dress is out and I think ive found a few I like

    but............

    I don't want to marry in white, im liking red.......

    thoughts???
    I have a friend who married in a red meringue. And one of the first questions she asked her DH publicly was 'does my bum look big in this?' :rotfl:
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  • VfM4meplse
    VfM4meplse Posts: 34,269 Forumite
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    Wear whatever makes you feel fabulous!
    Value-for-money-for-me-puhleeze!

    "No man is worth, crawling on the earth"- adapted from Bob Crewe and Bob Gaudio

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  • I worked with someone who wore a red dress, but still cut like a wedding dress. It looked absolutely amazing
  • Faith177
    Faith177 Posts: 2,927 Forumite
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    My friend wore a gorgeous red and black dress for her wedding and she looked amazing!

    My dress was ivory but with a purple tartan corset and trim on jacket and the underside of the overskirt was also tartan
    First Date 08/11/2008, Moved In Together 01/06/2009, Engaged 01/01/10, Wedding Day 27/04/2013, Baby Moshie due 29/06/2019 :T
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    A friend of mine got married in a black dress, it was beautiful. Wear what you like - it doesn't have to be a dress. You could go in a giraffe onesie if that's what you fancy, it's your day.
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    It has to be white, I'm afraid. Anything else renders your union void. Fact.
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • Wear what makes you feel wonderful, that will photograph well, and that you can see yourself wearing again.
    If this is a Once Only job, then hire the dress but stick to the first two suggestions?
    Depending on season, a stunning little number to dance in, worn under a really stunning winter coat?
    Have a Wonderful Wedding!
  • onlyroz
    onlyroz Posts: 17,661 Forumite
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    Wear whatever you like. I got married in turquoise.
  • Hermia
    Hermia Posts: 4,473 Forumite
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    meritaten wrote: »
    It has only been 'traditional' for a bride to marry in white since Victorian times and there have ALWAYS been brides who have gone their own way!

    It's amazing how many of our traditions are actually really modern.

    I have seen lots of brides wearing other coloured dresses, not just now, but in old photos too. I think they look lovely. I look terrible in pale colours so would definitely wear something different.

    OP - if anyone comments just say, "I've been such a total slapper in my life that I really didn't feel it was appropriate to wear virginal white". That will shut them up!
  • cod3
    cod3 Posts: 805 Forumite
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    It has to be white, I'm afraid. Anything else renders your union void. Fact.

    Aawww! I wish I had know this before forking out on a divorce lawyer :money:

    Another red and black bride here :D
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