exs new partner on dodgy websites?

paulineb_2

Brewstersmum wrote: »

I don't have concerns for my children, they are happy and well adjusted but I am concerned that if my ex was to give up his housing association home near to the kids school he could end up homeless very quickly if this woman is meeting other people for sex. he wouldn't be able to get another property, would end up in private rents nowhere near the kids school and he would struggle to pay his bills as rent is very high in that area.

the children always have a home here but it miles from there school and friends

I appreciate its a concern but youve said yourself it looks like shes been set up by someone

Also, if hes planning to give up his home, thats his choice, people do things that arent always the best choice for them and if he ended up struggling to pay his bills, thats his call, not yours

Same if the kids ended up having to move. Im afraid its fine to be concerned, but this has been brought to your attention, imagine something wasnt, you could do nothing about it, every single relationship can be pot luck, hes got to be big enough to make his own decisions and hopefully reasonable enough that those decisions dont impact on your kids in a negative fashion