This Time I'm Really Going To Do It

Humdinger1

Ooh @Watty1, what excitement to see your name pop up!!! Sorry to hear about the situation but honestly, if this isn't too blunt, you could have spent years pouring energy into a situation that would never be fixed.  As it is, you know where you are and can start with a clean sheet and no illusions.   We're all here, cheering you on.  You can totally do this.   Love Humdinger x 

edinburgher

@Watty1 - nice to see you around, even if it's not the most cheerful of updates. It's never too late for pensions, just a bit more expensive 

A_Frayed_Knot

Hi @Watty1, sorry to hear things are a bit of an upheaval atm.  Hope you can move on with your new plans, and new life.  Sorry, don't remember if you disclosed you age, but I'm sure your much younger than me, and I bought a house at 52 yrs of age, so anything is "do-able".  As @Humdinger1 said, we are all here for you.  x

Suffolk_lass

Yes indeed, we are all here. I think I was 52 when pension became my priority. Totally do-able with the sort of application you will bring

Watty1

A_Frayed_Knot said:

Hi @Watty1, sorry to hear things are a bit of an upheaval atm.  Hope you can move on with your new plans, and new life.  Sorry, don't remember if you disclosed you age, but I'm sure your much younger than me, and I bought a house at 52 yrs of age, so anything is "do-able".  As @Humdinger1 said, we are all here for you.  x

58 years old here     Filling in forms for mediation and maybe Mr W will show up for a session.  

TallGirl

Hi Watty lovely to have you back stay strong it can be done and you'll come out feeling so much better the other side. I left my alcoholic husband aged 45 who I had been with since aged 21 I've got a fab new life with someone I love and who appreciates me. No stress and no conflicts don't think I ever realised what I was missing until I now have it. Hope you have a good solicitor sounds like you might need it. 

Humdinger1

@Watty1 just checking how you are? 

Watty1

Not been great at keeping up with diary.  Probably should  as things have gone down hill dreadfully.  Ex moving back in.  Has been threatening it for abut 4 weeks says will do it today.  Am now sick with anxiety and can't cope with doing anything.  Haven't done anything for 2 hours.   Ex refusing to settle at all.  

maggiem

Very sorry to read this Watty and don't want to read and run. Have you checked with your lawyer at all? I'm sure you will have just sounds an awful situation. Is there somewhere you can go or are the animals keeping you there? Can you invited a friend over to keep you company (might reduce the anxiety). Thinking of you. 

ajmoney

@Watty1 this is horrible.  I have sent you a PM.