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SarahNeedle1872 - DFW Diary
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awww sarah why didnt you say this before you booked?
i feel awfull now.
Anyways i dont think you are being awful. he obviously hasnt understood what you have been saying to him for a few months now. As for the depression thing if it isnt an excuse then he needs to do something about it rather than it getting worse. At the momment the extra stress is the last of your problems. I do hope you get better advice. Take care hunni and if you need a shoulder
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Thanks hun, I appreciate that..... Just been in to have a little chat with him, and ended up having another arguement.... I'm not allowed to mention the w word (work), and he said hes not going in at least until Wednesday, so I'm going to have a fun couple of days! Thank God for MSE to keep me relatively sane!
Sarah x'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde0 -
Does he have a reason for not going in?
We'll keep you sane don't worry!Current debt - £16,300
Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek::ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A0 -
He's gonna hand his notice in next time he goes in, and look for a new job while he works the notice (apparently) He's not going in until Wed because he wants to give the notice to our Store Manager and she isn't in until Wed. I honestly think he is embarrassed about how he has acted, but he's not man enough to say that he was wrong, and that's what really annoys me.... he creates these situations, then hasn't got the balls to apologise
Sarah x'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde0 -
Hmmm....
Just make sure he is willing to temp if nothing comes up in the new year. Jobless would be the last thing you need!Current debt - £16,300
Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek::ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A0 -
I've already told him if he can't financially contribute to the household, he can leave!'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde0
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SarahNeedle1872 wrote: »I've already told him if he can't financially contribute to the household, he can leave!
Good for you sarah, I hope you arnt 'stuck' with no finances etc because he is finding his 'dream' job :rolleyes:0 -
The only thing I seem to be stuck with is him!!! Well not for now at least, as he has gone out again! He *says* he will be back by midnight...... I have told him he needs to start the New Year as he means to go on, either with me or without me. If he isn't home by midnight to spend the start of the New Year with his family, then we are finished....postingalwaysposting wrote: »Good for you sarah, I hope you arnt 'stuck' with no finances etc because he is finding his 'dream' job :rolleyes:
He said it all sounded very 'Eastenders' which it is I guess, but I am dealy serious about this! He needs to get his priorities sorted!
Sarah x'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde0 -
Oh dear Sarah - not a good start. I hope he does come home and you 're able to sort something out.
Big hugs
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Thanks, and I hope you and ur OH do too
TC
Sarah x'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde0
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