SarahNeedle1872 - DFW Diary

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SarahNeedle1872

Thanks Hun, needed a big hug after the day I had yesterday.... unfortunately it didn't improve at all today....

OH was unconcious on the sofa when I got up this morning... and went to bed after I left for work (DS at MiL last night, thankfully)
OH decided he wasn't going in to work again today but didn't call in sick or anything, and really stitched us up! OH and I work at the same place, so of course everyone was asking me what was going on (including the boss, altho she has been GREAT! God help OH when she gets hold of him tho!!!).
I came home at lunchtime to see if he was coming in, and got abuse hurled at me for the full hour... the long and short of it is that he 'hates me', he 'isn't bothered that he stitched work up', and he's 'leaving me' - well damn well hurry up then u selfish SOB!!!!!:mad: :mad: :mad:
I get home from MiL tonight, and he has gone out again (bearing in mind he hasn't seen his son since Tuesday night!!!:mad: ) and taken another £100 from his acc.... leaving him approx £270 left for the month Looking forward to the end of the month....

Quite frankly I have had enough of his childish behaviour, and in my current frame of mind, if he did leave, I would only feel sorry for my son, not for myself. He is behaving like a spoiled child, and I am not allowing myself to get angry about it any more.

Thanks (again) for the rant...

Sarah x

Gemmzie

Bigs hugs Sarah, maybe some time apart would allow you both to cool from the anger and it might be the clue to working it all out?

SarahNeedle1872

Gemmzie wrote: »

Bigs hugs Sarah, maybe some time apart would allow you both to cool from the anger and it might be the clue to working it all out?

Or he could just stop acting like Kevin the Teenager!!!! No offence to any teenage Kevins on the site!;)

U are right tho Gemmzie, I think that may well be the solution.... the only trouble being that he doesn't really have anywhere to go - his Mum won't have him back at home, and I can't move out for a while because of the wee man.

Sarah x

SarahNeedle1872

OH is on his drunken way home.... let the s!!t storm commence!

candyblue

Ah Sarah I know how it feels to have a selfish OH but I dont think even mine is that bad. Sending you a big hug and I hope today gets better. If you need to talk you know where I am.

SarahNeedle1872

Well after a very turbulent morning, OH and I seem to be doing ok....we are doing the un-DFW thing and going to the pub for dinner..... we had agood long talk this orning, and I think we have sorted out a few issues that we had with each other. He's also going into work tomorrow to talk to the Mgr/Deputy Mgr and hopefully resolve the issues there too.... he will probably end up getting into trouble for not turning up, but at least he's finally going to face the problem.... He had a go at me this morning for not listening to him, as he's been trying to talk to me for days...... I did point out that when all he does is shout, I can't actually hear what he's trying to say!
Hopefully everything is sorted for the time being... only time will tell!

Money wise, I have put 20 coins in my jar, plus had two £2s, so an ok end to a crazy day!

Sarah x

Seaxwyn

Hi Sarah, I'm glad to hear you've sorted things for now, but it does sound as if he has quite a serious problem with drinking. If he does continue behaving like that you don't have to put up with it. Would he be open to getting help with his issues?

SarahNeedle1872

That was one of the hings we discussed this morning... he also thinks he might be getting depression, so I suggested he goes to talk to the dr, to which he said 'yeah, might do'..... way more positive than I was expecting!

hypno06

Things sound pretty tough for you, and you are the one who is having to take the "responsible" role all round.

Throughout all of this - good days and bad - look after yourself. If you run out of energy then you will hit a brick wall, and that will not be good, as I know you will be aware. So, hugs to you, and just a reminder to take care x