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Too late to back out? (Meeting a guy from Facebook)
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angelsmomma wrote: »Have reported too as deeply offensive to me as a Christian
I find it offensive when someone wishes to suppress the thoughts of somebody else because they disagree with them.0 -
What happened to Christian love and tolerance?
Personally, I thanked the post because I wholeheartedly think it's correct - regarding all orgnaised religions. Houses of hypocrisy, most of them.
HBS x"I believe in ordinary acts of bravery, in the courage that drives one person to stand up for another."
"It's easy to know what you're against, quite another to know what you're for."
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angelsmomma wrote: »Have reported too as deeply offensive to me as a ChristianI can afford anything that I want.
Just so long as I don't want much.0 -
The OP in her first post..
The use of religion did try to imply that to be trust - I forgot how many of the scam emails I used to receive ended with some form of 'now i must go to church etc'.. to kind of imply that can be trusted..
Do wonder in the OP sister knows of these intentions from someone she introduced...sweetpea26 wrote: »Disgraceful comment.
Who says this man is a Christian. He is telling her that he is ... doesn't mean that he is does it? He is a groomer and willing to do anything to pull this vulnerable young woman in.0 -
If you Tigercubx are being straight with us ( I still have my doubts ) then take this from me.....you think he's going to come looking for you in your small village if you don't go to London....what a complete joke!! HE WON'T. He is a chancer, there are plenty of girls in London for him to try to hook up with and dare I say quite a few "ladies of the night" he could cosy up with. He wants sex and if he doesn't get it with you, I'm sure he'll find somebody else.
BTW, did you ever get to do the Adult webcamming for money that you were so interested in last year??
You said yourself that you were quite comfortable going nude in front of the webcam so if you've been showing your bits off to any Tom, !!!!!! or Harry for money that's up to you but if this bloke is one of those who's also seen your bits, money or no money involved ...... do you really think he's worth taking anything further with??????
I feel so sorry for his poor wife & kids:eek:Onwards and Upwards0 -
My older sister lives in New Zealand. I haven't seen her in years but she added me on Facebook last Christmas. I have struggled with depression for several years and we got talking about it, and she said that her friend is a speech therapist for children but as part of his training he had studied psychology and conditions such as depression in detail over quite a long period of time.
So she passed on his Facebook to me, and we got talking, it moved onto Skype calls and FaceTime. He was nice, understanding, etc. I actually fell for him really quickly, over the Internet, sad I know. At first it was conversations about my depression; I really opened up to him and he understood, and I could talk to him and confess to him about a lot of traumatic things I've never told anyone before.
At first I wasn't that attracted to him even though he's gorgeous because i knew he was a married christian with four kids so in a way i just didnt want to allow my self to become obsessed with him. Plus he is 34, I'm 21 and I prefer men my own age. But slowly I began to become more and more attracted to him (he looks like Christian bale haha).
He is the one who began flirting with me & before long we were skyping everyday. Sexual conversations, sexual webcam chats, etc. We were going to meet in feb but I backed out, I couldn't bring my self to meet him when I knew he had kids and a wife (I only know because I have his Facebook, had I met him some other way I know he wouldn't have told me). Even though he was annoyed I didn't want to go through with meeting him in feb he still carried on talking to me and we've become closer.
Anyway he rang me today, said he had a suprise and sent me a pic - he's got a plane ticket & is coming to England to meet some guy he knows in London on the 21st and wants me to meet him :eek::eek: I want to; I think he's amazing, he's gorgeous, he's my dream man basically and far too good for me
But obviously, he has a wife and kids. And I guess I could meet him just as friends, but I know he doesn't want to be just friends .. I don't want to back out - I pretty much love him, I want to be with him. But meeting him will cause a lot of guilt, and I know I will only get to see him for three days and he will go back to nz and never contact me again once he's got what he wants. I like to think he genuinely likes me, but I definitely like him a hell of a lot more.
So do I move on, or do I meet him? He doesn't know my address, but he knows the (small) village I live in so omg what if he comes to my house if I don't show up and go to London lol.
I'm 34, look like Christian Bale and I'm not married. I'd also like to bone a 21 y/o. Problem solved.0 -
sweetpea26 wrote: »Originally Posted by coinxoperated
And as an Athiest myself, the fact he's 'Christian' just enforces my belief even more. The amount of times I've seen other professionals judge someone on their religion and assume they are good or decent people amazes me.
If someone insists on abiding by a over-published brain washing book, well... It could have easily been little red riding hood... And he could easily be playing the wolf character.
Do not ever trust someone based on their religion. It's most countries failings!
How dare you. You are entitled to your opinion just don't insult those of us who do not hold your beliefs. Comparing God's Word to Little Red Riding Hood shows the type of person you really are.
Who says this man is a Christian. He is telling her that he is ... doesn't mean that he is does it? He is a groomer and willing to do anything to pull this vulnerable young woman in.
I am pressing the report button for the above comment and would appreciate that others would do the same.
What an offensive and ridiculous and intolerant and ignorant (and self-defeating since you idiotically quote the post that you want removed) protest by Sweetpea.
How dare you show such intolerance and ignorance. To deny the reality of the history of the Bible and to claim you have knowledge of God's Word and to know which is gospel and which is church is ridiculous. It is entirely fair to compare fairy tales with religious texts (indeed, most of the tales popularly featured in superficial Christian worship are inarguable cribs and adoptations of contemporary myths.)
A good Christian is able to argue with sense and not rely on a Taleban to discipline dissent (or just discussion).
Should you be reported for the offensive blasphemy of your tag? "Angel's momma" is deeply offensive to devout Christians and contravenes the demands of their God. But I take it you can pick and choose interpretations as you see fit.0 -
Why is it offensive that atheists consider the Bible (and other religious books) to be a work of fiction. I would have thought it's pretty obvious that's what we think. If we didn't think that, then we wouldn't be atheists :rotfl: No one insulted Christians.
Anyway I think the OP has had their fun and gone. Trolling or just hoping everyone would agree with her and got the hump because we don't.
For my pennysworth, OP, don't be a prat. Your justifications are pathetic. It'll end in tears all round (apart from his).Cash not ash from January 2nd 2011: £2565.:j
OU student: A103 , A215 , A316 all done. Currently A230 all leading to an English Literature degree.
Any advice given is as an individual, not as a representative of my firm.0 -
The OP didn't say that he was a Christian, she said that he looked like Christian Bale!
:rotfl:
I am laughing my head off here, depsite the very serious nature of all of this (and FWIW, I agree with all of you - this idea is lunacy).Life is a gift... and I intend to make the most of mine :A
Never regret something that once made you smile :A0 -
She did say he was a christian.0
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