MSE pregnancy club II

angelfairy

ooohhhh....keeley and sarah....good luck... will be thinking of you

this blasted cold is still with me (sorry for going on about it). now i have the annoying constant pathetic little cough and itchy throat that is doing my head in. i have been taking a few paracetamol but feel awful for doing so (i am 14+5).

also, i have been panicking about losing the baby. i am sorry for those that are reading this that have done so (as we are very much aware due to recent events on the board) as it has made me even more aware of just want a precious life i have inside me. i can't get it out of my head and constantly worry about it.

thanks for listening.

hope all are well.

Sarahsaver

AF your feelings are perfectly normal.
When I carried my first, I did not worry at all until she was born and then i darent sleep for the first few weeks I used to wake up and watch her breathing.
With DS1 I had 2 bleeds and my waters broke very slightly at 19 weeks and i was told he would be lost. Hes a VERY big strong handful of an 8 year old
With little DS his @hole of a Dad told me to get rid of him when i already had a belly and everything, and i cant remember much of the pregnancy for being tired and scared of the @hole.
i had a miscarriage last year at 10 weeks and before that i had thought constantly about babies, being a mum again as soon as i got the positive test.
This time because of the m/c I STILL find it hard to picture that I in fact have a baby inside me even though its got its feet on the starting blocks :eek:
I will be ok when its here and i hear the first cry.
Everyone is different and i hope that by me telling you how I felt each time you will see theres no right or wrong way to feel. Try relaxation techniques they mey help;)

Sarahsaver

BTW AF i had a lot of colds i think its cos your immune system is weaker when you are pg.
i didnt like taking anything, honey lemon and ginger tea and sleep were the best I could do!

jpwhittle

hi hows everyone doing? havnt been on here for ages as we have had so much going on but thought id come and see how everyone is doing. congrats to all the new mumies. ive got 3 days left as my due dte changed. loads of cramps but then it all stops. will only be induced on the 3rd october so seriously hoping bubs comes this week.
hows everyone else?

xredwebx

Hi All,

haven't been on for ages, tbh I'm trying not to get excited (does that sound awful!?) as my best friend had a missed m/c about two weeks ago, she was 14 weeks and baby died at 10wks, so I'm worrying about that ALOT lately.
But i'm 9wks today, keeping everything crossed that everything is ok and have my first visit with the midwife on saturday which is making things a bit more real.

Hope everyone is ok, I appear to be getting every illness going lately! Cant wait for xmas now, the weather is turning )

xxxx

angelfairy

Sarahsaver wrote: »

AF your feelings are perfectly normal.
When I carried my first, I did not worry at all until she was born and then i darent sleep for the first few weeks I used to wake up and watch her breathing.
With DS1 I had 2 bleeds and my waters broke very slightly at 19 weeks and i was told he would be lost. Hes a VERY big strong handful of an 8 year old
With little DS his @hole of a Dad told me to get rid of him when i already had a belly and everything, and i cant remember much of the pregnancy for being tired and scared of the @hole.
i had a miscarriage last year at 10 weeks and before that i had thought constantly about babies, being a mum again as soon as i got the positive test.
This time because of the m/c I STILL find it hard to picture that I in fact have a baby inside me even though its got its feet on the starting blocks :eek:
I will be ok when its here and i hear the first cry.
Everyone is different and i hope that by me telling you how I felt each time you will see theres no right or wrong way to feel. Try relaxation techniques they mey help;)

Sarah,

Thank you so much for sharing all of that with me. It is extremely comforting to know that I am not over reacting or being silly, which is how i was feeling.

You are amazing to have gone through what you have and i really admire that.

I am not sure what else to say other than THANK YOU VERY MUCH.

xx

angelfairy

xredwebx wrote: »

Hi All,

haven't been on for ages, tbh I'm trying not to get excited (does that sound awful!?) as my best friend had a missed m/c about two weeks ago, she was 14 weeks and baby died at 10wks, so I'm worrying about that ALOT lately.
But i'm 9wks today, keeping everything crossed that everything is ok and have my first visit with the midwife on saturday which is making things a bit more real.

Hope everyone is ok, I appear to be getting every illness going lately! Cant wait for xmas now, the weather is turning )

xxxx

xredwebx,

read my post a few above yours. think you and i are going through similar things at the moment.

xx

xredwebx

angelfairy wrote: »

xredwebx,

read my post a few above yours. think you and i are going through similar things at the moment.

xx

Thanks angelfairy, comforting to know i'm not the only one going mad! fingerscrossed for both of us xxx

candygirl

My DD is 13 weeks tomoz, has recently split with her bf and come to live with me.She is very up and down emotionally, and can't believe the relationship has ended as he was the one who wanted the baby in the first place.I think he liked the idea of a perfect family, but couldn't cope with the responsibility and financial side of things:rolleyes:
She is safe and comfy here, but is feeling very isolated and depressed, as her good time party freinds are nowhere to be seen now.I am at a loss what to do, as am also helping to nurse my Dad who's dying of cancer:(

SeptemberBaby_2

angelfairy wrote: »

also, i have been panicking about losing the baby. i am sorry for those that are reading this that have done so (as we are very much aware due to recent events on the board) as it has made me even more aware of just want a precious life i have inside me. i can't get it out of my head and constantly worry about it.

AF, I'm sure we all go through this, I know I did! I have had a m/c so know exactly how quickly something so precious can be snatched away but as the weeks go by I'm sure you will worry less and excitement will take its place . It really is a miracle and it does take time for it to sink in.

Take care of yourself xxx