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  • septemberbaby - you want another?? I remember reading back when you were pregnant and then willing her to come! Would you prefer a smaller age gap between them?? I'd like roughly a 2yr gap I think, but who knows when the time comes!
    Can't wait 'til DH and I start ttc - I've already started making sure we eat healthily and that I get regular exercise.
    Any tips on how long before starting ttc I should think about taking pre-natal vitamins? What type are best? I take it there's no harm in taking them for a number of months if it can take a while to conceive?
  • jenza8
    jenza8 Posts: 1,574 Forumite
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    EDD
    Dougggie - 2 March 08
    Doobees - 4th March 08
    svmitche - 4th March 2008
    Purplegirluk1 - 6th March 2008
    Samantham06 - 14th March 2008
    Heavenleigh - 24th march 08
    Melg1973 - 24th march 08
    Newleafer - 27th march 08
    stepneythebluebellengine - 28th March 2008
    Pink Princess 1 - 29th March 08
    tranquil - 2 April 2008
    Girl And The City - 5 April 2008
    redflame705 - 8th April 08
    snugglepuss - 9th April 08
    gemsygem (Sheel's daughter) 19th April 08
    MonkeyLady - 20th April 08
    JojoB - 20th April 2008
    PinkPrincess 21st April 2008
    machairs - 24th April 2008 (may change after scan)
    cluuuuur - 25th April 2008
    debecca - 26th April 2008
    Kelsi-Blu - 27th April 08
    Katgoddess - 29th April 2008
    mandycutiepie - 1st May 2008
    lostbuckaroos - 2 May 2008 (although doc thinks that could be 2 weeks out!)
    rjh090384 -3rd May 2008 (changed at 12 week scan)
    Traveller -May 3rd 2008 (but probably 10th as always a week late!!!
    Knotty29 - 16th May 2008
    magan- 18th May 2008
    destiny_star2006 - 22 May 2008 (or could be 2 June!)
    jb - 27th May 2008
    clarkey1000 - May 31st 2008
    Harding 1985 - 9 June
    barriefilms - 9th June
    jenza8 - 10th June
    nik2108 - 11th June 2008
    Nicifer_noonoo - 13th June 2008
    Chicken1902 - 15th June 2008
    Tinka21 - 24 June 2008
    aggiev - 1st July 2008
    honeybe21 - 2nd/3rd july 2008
    sunday_girl - 6th July 2008
    skyeandeviesmummy - 13th July 2008
    LilacPixie - 14th July 2008
    I love my Pomeranian - 15th July 2008
    Jak - 18th July 2008
    bethom - 20th July 2008
    skintnutta - 21st July 2008
    Warburton100 - 25th July
    HStef81 - 29th July 2008
    Blink_Blink - 3rd August 2008
    ParadiseKidd - 6th August 2008
    Carol9uk - 6 August 2008
    grad_gal25 - 11 August(My Birthday This was so not planned!)
    miss-piggin- 11 August 2008
    anm - 17th August 2008
    Sarahrey1 - 20th August 2008
    handbagqueen - 20th August 2008
    LindseyandMatthew 23rd August!
    wotnext - 27 August 2008
    Linzm - 28 August 2008
    Scottish-Diva- ? August 2008
    Chutzpah - 8th September 2008 (we haven't had a dating scan yet)
    Keelykat - 19th September 2008
    Emjem - 21st September 2008
    JPWhittle - 24th September 2008
    foreversomeday - 27 September 2008 (May change after scan)
    BargainAholic - 27th September 2008 (may change after scan)
    CJ2405 - 2 October 2008
    heather38 - 4 october 2008 (may change after scan)
    pollyanna24 - 8th october 2008
    slscarborough - 20th October 2008
    Danielle_Kenzies-Mum - 20th October 2008
    sarahh112 - 6th November 2008
    rachelleblondel - 7th November 2008
    kaza - 13th November 2008

    TTC LIST
    Daisykate124
    Cookiesncream
    witchyroo
    sjm
    Fishcake_random
    Lesleydejager
    jo_jo
    picklesmum
    durham_girl
    likabu
    Pooky
    emptypocketz
    Miss_pink & Mr Pink
    Boobylou
    lilmrsmullen
    jiblets1
    Lillian06
    ginvzt
    Uisge10
    CHARLIE54
    jpwhittle
    lwcus78
    bloomin freezing
    Andrea78
    AnnieM
    Wondermum07
    Melvis
    SeptemberBaby

    BIRTH LIST
    Bun - Annabeth Charlotte arrived 2 1/2 weeks early at 3.44am on 7th February, weighing 5lb 9oz.
    Cathie - Alice arrived 17 February at 1700 weighing 7lb 5oz
    Melly74 - Daisy Hannah arrived 19 February at 1822 weighing 7lb 14oz
    ukbandit - Sara arrived 28/02 @ 12.26 weighing 7lb 9oz
    Bailey - Molly Louisa 26/02 @ 8.31 weighing 8lb 1 oz
    miss_Be - Ember Thomasin Abbie arrived 00.18 2nd March 'Mummy's Day' 7lb 12oz, 10 days late but not overcooked
    nicci985 - Ozzie Joe arrived 29th february at 15.56 weighing 8lb 4oz!
    alison6692 - Daisy Pamela Smith - February 29th weighing 9lb 11oz!
    Elliesmum - Samuel Michael Sid Beardsley - arrived 3rd March 9lb 3oz
    3KIDSNOMONEY - Ben Daniel arrived 6th March, 7 days late 8lb 11oz.
    mandy2383 - Troy Christian 7 March born at 7:39pm weighing 8lb

    PROBABLY GIVEN BIRTH BUT TOO WORN OUT TO LOG ON LIST
    Usually allow 2 weeks after EDD before transferring to this list...
    Marvalous - 12th February 08
    Loopy-loo73 - 21 Feb 08
    PiscesPrincess - 24th February 2008
    Ella29 - 27th February 08

    Hi,
    I've just added myself to the EDD list - 10th June. I've just made it to the 3rd trimester but it's better to join late than never!
    Jenny
    Most recent wins: IPad, Jamie Magazine yearbook, Links of London friendship bracelet, Baumatic ice cream machine! :j
  • keelykat
    keelykat Posts: 3,341 Forumite
    emjem wrote: »
    Looks like we both had a good Christmas then Keely ;)

    I had an earlier scan because myself and the midwife weren't sure of dates - I hadn't had a period since August and so they took the date of my miscarriage which was at the end of November as my "last period." The first scan showed I was only 9 weeks so therefore I got to see my baby again yesterday at 12 weeks!

    How have you been feeling? Are you starting to show?

    I've felt sick but not actually been sick - but that's almost disappeared now...and am really tired, normally go to bed by 9.30pm!

    :o people now know what we got upto over xmas lol ;)

    I guess ive been lucky in the sense that i havent actually been sick either, but have had lots of indigestion/heartburn, and going off a few things. Ive had the tiredness from early on-totally sucked away my energy! The worst thing right now is my moods are going up and down-and i sometimes feel upset but dont know why, or the opposite and ill be realy happy looking at baby things! hormones!

    Im not sure if im showing yet, the trouble is i normally have a round tummy anyway :o so i probably just look a bit podgy-er lol. Are you showing at all?

    keely.x
    Mommy to Elliot (5) and Lewis (born xmas eve 11!)
  • keelykat
    keelykat Posts: 3,341 Forumite
    carol9uk wrote: »
    how come you are having a scan at 22 weeks as well as 20 weeks. i got my 20 week scan next week and been told i wont get any more. i hope i do

    Hi, the consultant muttered something about my bloods/blood pressure-to be honest i was a tad overwhlemed and confused by this point! I have high blood pressure, so im on medication for this (and had to swap to a safer one) and on a low dose of aspirin to help with the blood flow or something. I was told i'd been watched over more then usual, and fingers crossed i can keep my bp to a safe level as id prefer a natural birth if possible.

    Oh ive just remembered the 20 week scan is in a different place to where i had the first scan, and i was told the 22 week one would be back at where the first one took place-so i assume it'll just to keep an eye on things maybe?

    keely.x
    Mommy to Elliot (5) and Lewis (born xmas eve 11!)
  • pollyanna24
    pollyanna24 Posts: 4,390 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    EDD
    Dougggie - 2 March 08
    Doobees - 4th March 08
    svmitche - 4th March 2008
    Purplegirluk1 - 6th March 2008
    Samantham06 - 14th March 2008
    Heavenleigh - 24th march 08
    Melg1973 - 24th march 08
    Newleafer - 27th march 08
    stepneythebluebellengine - 28th March 2008
    Pink Princess 1 - 29th March 08
    tranquil - 2 April 2008
    Girl And The City - 5 April 2008
    redflame705 - 8th April 08
    snugglepuss - 9th April 08
    gemsygem (Sheel's daughter) 19th April 08
    MonkeyLady - 20th April 08
    JojoB - 20th April 2008
    PinkPrincess 21st April 2008
    machairs - 24th April 2008 (may change after scan)
    cluuuuur - 25th April 2008
    debecca - 26th April 2008
    Kelsi-Blu - 27th April 08
    Katgoddess - 29th April 2008
    mandycutiepie - 1st May 2008
    lostbuckaroos - 2 May 2008 (although doc thinks that could be 2 weeks out!)
    rjh090384 -3rd May 2008 (changed at 12 week scan)
    Traveller -May 3rd 2008 (but probably 10th as always a week late!!!
    Knotty29 - 16th May 2008
    magan- 18th May 2008
    destiny_star2006 - 22 May 2008 (or could be 2 June!)
    jb - 27th May 2008
    clarkey1000 - May 31st 2008
    Harding 1985 - 9 June
    barriefilms - 9th June
    jenza8 - 10th June
    nik2108 - 11th June 2008
    Nicifer_noonoo - 13th June 2008
    Chicken1902 - 15th June 2008
    Tinka21 - 24 June 2008
    aggiev - 1st July 2008
    honeybe21 - 2nd/3rd july 2008
    sunday_girl - 6th July 2008
    skyeandeviesmummy - 13th July 2008
    LilacPixie - 14th July 2008
    I love my Pomeranian - 15th July 2008
    Jak - 18th July 2008
    bethom - 20th July 2008
    skintnutta - 21st July 2008
    Warburton100 - 25th July
    HStef81 - 29th July 2008
    Blink_Blink - 3rd August 2008
    ParadiseKidd - 6th August 2008
    Carol9uk - 6 August 2008
    grad_gal25 - 11 August(My Birthday This was so not planned!)
    miss-piggin- 11 August 2008
    anm - 17th August 2008
    Sarahrey1 - 20th August 2008
    handbagqueen - 20th August 2008
    LindseyandMatthew 23rd August!
    wotnext - 27 August 2008
    Linzm - 28 August 2008
    Scottish-Diva- ? August 2008
    Chutzpah - 8th September 2008 (we haven't had a dating scan yet)
    Keelykat - 19th September 2008
    Emjem - 21st September 2008
    JPWhittle - 24th September 2008
    foreversomeday - 27 September 2008 (May change after scan)
    BargainAholic - 27th September 2008 (may change after scan)
    CJ2405 - 2 October 2008
    heather38 - 4 october 2008 (may change after scan)
    slscarborough - 20th October 2008
    pollyanna24 - 22nd October 2008 - changed my date
    Danielle_Kenzies-Mum - 20th October 2008
    sarahh112 - 6th November 2008
    rachelleblondel - 7th November 2008
    kaza - 13th November 2008

    TTC LIST
    Daisykate124
    Cookiesncream
    witchyroo
    sjm
    Fishcake_random
    Lesleydejager
    jo_jo
    picklesmum
    durham_girl
    likabu
    Pooky
    emptypocketz
    Miss_pink & Mr Pink
    Boobylou
    lilmrsmullen
    jiblets1
    Lillian06
    ginvzt
    Uisge10
    CHARLIE54
    jpwhittle
    lwcus78
    bloomin freezing
    Andrea78
    AnnieM
    Wondermum07
    Melvis
    SeptemberBaby

    BIRTH LIST
    Bun - Annabeth Charlotte arrived 2 1/2 weeks early at 3.44am on 7th February, weighing 5lb 9oz.
    Cathie - Alice arrived 17 February at 1700 weighing 7lb 5oz
    Melly74 - Daisy Hannah arrived 19 February at 1822 weighing 7lb 14oz
    ukbandit - Sara arrived 28/02 @ 12.26 weighing 7lb 9oz
    Bailey - Molly Louisa 26/02 @ 8.31 weighing 8lb 1 oz
    miss_Be - Ember Thomasin Abbie arrived 00.18 2nd March 'Mummy's Day' 7lb 12oz, 10 days late but not overcooked
    nicci985 - Ozzie Joe arrived 29th february at 15.56 weighing 8lb 4oz!
    alison6692 - Daisy Pamela Smith - February 29th weighing 9lb 11oz!
    Elliesmum - Samuel Michael Sid Beardsley - arrived 3rd March 9lb 3oz
    3KIDSNOMONEY - Ben Daniel arrived 6th March, 7 days late 8lb 11oz.
    mandy2383 - Troy Christian 7 March born at 7:39pm weighing 8lb

    PROBABLY GIVEN BIRTH BUT TOO WORN OUT TO LOG ON LIST
    Usually allow 2 weeks after EDD before transferring to this list...
    Marvalous - 12th February 08
    Loopy-loo73 - 21 Feb 08
    PiscesPrincess - 24th February 2008
    Ella29 - 27th February 08
    Pink Sproglettes born 2008 and 2010
    Mortgages (End 2017) - £180,235.03
    (End 2021) - £131,215.25 DID IT!!!
    (End 2022) - Target £116,213.81
  • pollyanna24
    pollyanna24 Posts: 4,390 Forumite
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    Hi guys. I am 8 weeks pregnant. Thought I was more, but have had two scans and that is what the lady at the hospital told me.

    Now I think it's a case of seeing the midwife. Do I just ring up the doctors and ask the receptionist that I want to make an appointment with the midwife? I've already seen the doctor, he was the one that sent me for the early scans.
    Pink Sproglettes born 2008 and 2010
    Mortgages (End 2017) - £180,235.03
    (End 2021) - £131,215.25 DID IT!!!
    (End 2022) - Target £116,213.81
  • keelykat
    keelykat Posts: 3,341 Forumite
    :o
    Hi guys. I am 8 weeks pregnant. Thought I was more, but have had two scans and that is what the lady at the hospital told me.

    Now I think it's a case of seeing the midwife. Do I just ring up the doctors and ask the receptionist that I want to make an appointment with the midwife? I've already seen the doctor, he was the one that sent me for the early scans.

    I thought you had to see the midwife before being sent for scans? I first saw my gp, who gave me the midwifes number to ring up, and i also filled out forms there and then (you'll get sent a card so you can get free prescriptions etc). Once i'd seen the midwife, and had blood tests etc i was sent a letter from the maternity unit with an appointment for the first scan and to see the consultant etc. So you've done things back to front to me! :o My gp couldnt make the midwife appointment for me either-i had to ring her up myself to arrange it.

    keely.x
    Mommy to Elliot (5) and Lewis (born xmas eve 11!)
  • pollyanna24
    pollyanna24 Posts: 4,390 Forumite
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    keelykat wrote: »
    :o

    I thought you had to see the midwife before being sent for scans? I first saw my gp, who gave me the midwifes number to ring up, and i also filled out forms there and then (you'll get sent a card so you can get free prescriptions etc). Once i'd seen the midwife, and had blood tests etc i was sent a letter from the maternity unit with an appointment for the first scan and to see the consultant etc. So you've done things back to front to me! :o My gp couldnt make the midwife appointment for me either-i had to ring her up myself to arrange it.

    keely.x

    Teehee. Back to front. Sounds about right.

    I went to see the doctor as soon as I found out I was pregnant. I was panicking a little as there was spotting etc (all turned out to be implatation, but like I said, I thought I was further along than I thought) and he sent me along for a scan the very next day.

    I toddled along to the hospital and the lady who did the scan said she couldn't see very much and I must only be 5 weeks pregnant and asked me to come back in two weeks' time for another scan so they could check it was growing etc.

    So I had another scan last Friday and she said that she wouldn't need to see me again till I was 20 weeks (think I miss the 12 week scan as she was able to give me a due date).

    And that was that. So now I'm not sure if I need to go back and see the doctor again or maybe just book an appointment for the midwife. I remember the scan lady saying there was no point seeing the doctor as he would just refer me to the midwife.
    Pink Sproglettes born 2008 and 2010
    Mortgages (End 2017) - £180,235.03
    (End 2021) - £131,215.25 DID IT!!!
    (End 2022) - Target £116,213.81
  • keelykat
    keelykat Posts: 3,341 Forumite
    Teehee. Back to front. Sounds about right.

    I went to see the doctor as soon as I found out I was pregnant. I was panicking a little as there was spotting etc (all turned out to be implatation, but like I said, I thought I was further along than I thought) and he sent me along for a scan the very next day.

    I toddled along to the hospital and the lady who did the scan said she couldn't see very much and I must only be 5 weeks pregnant and asked me to come back in two weeks' time for another scan so they could check it was growing etc.

    So I had another scan last Friday and she said that she wouldn't need to see me again till I was 20 weeks (think I miss the 12 week scan as she was able to give me a due date).

    And that was that. So now I'm not sure if I need to go back and see the doctor again or maybe just book an appointment for the midwife. I remember the scan lady saying there was no point seeing the doctor as he would just refer me to the midwife.

    Ok, looks like you'll need to pop into your gp surgery and ask the receptionist for the midwifes number (i assume they'll have it, as mine did).

    I still see my gp regularly, but thats only because of my bp and meds. So unless you have problems you'll just see the midwife :o

    Ive found it rather confusing as to when you should do what, as different areas seem to do things at different times and some people dont even get a scan untill 20 weeks! So at least you know a definate date now and all is going well so far :o

    How's your OH? Mine is now very protective over me and bump :o

    keely.x
    Mommy to Elliot (5) and Lewis (born xmas eve 11!)
  • pollyanna24
    pollyanna24 Posts: 4,390 Forumite
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    Yeah, bf is very protective over me which is a good thing.

    He's been nagging me to ask my boss if I can take my 4 weeks holiday for this year just before my maternity leave, but I think at 8 weeks, it's a bit early to be talking about maternity leave (even if I have worked out when I'm thinking of leaving :p ).

    I'm getting a bit worried about how to claim for all the benefits that we'll be entitled to. I've got my little budget all set up which is all great and everything, but not if I'm waiting months for any money to go into my bank.

    I've worked out we are entitled to maternity pay, child benefit and child tax credit (well only just as together we earn £58K and I know this is the threshold. However, I won't be earning my half, will I? Cos I will be on maternity leave and I'm not sure if they take my wages into account even if I'm not getting them iyswim).

    Arrggh!! Stresses or what?!!!
    Pink Sproglettes born 2008 and 2010
    Mortgages (End 2017) - £180,235.03
    (End 2021) - £131,215.25 DID IT!!!
    (End 2022) - Target £116,213.81
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