MSE pregnancy club II

lilaclily

i hope somebody can help or guide me to the right thread

ust had a query my probation at work is meant to end on the 25th dec and i have just been told that i need to improve ( for god's sake what do they want i come in at 8.30 instead of 9am very day)
anyways also i havent told them yet about the pregnancy i thought i wud get permanent then i wud tell them, but now i am worried as my mortgage is nearly sorted out,
Do u think i shud tell them I am pregnant as they can't sack a pregnant woman?

i am 12 weeks pregnant
Help will be much appreciated as this has stressed me out this morning!

izoomzoom

Sorry to tell you this, but they can sack a pregnant woman. There just can't be any pregnancy reasons.

What is it that they want you to improve - your time keeping ? I don't want to go into a big speel about what you can be sacked for and can't, so could you perhaps tell us a few more specific details ?

lilaclily

izoomzoom wrote: »

Sorry to tell you this, but they can sack a pregnant woman. There just can't be any pregnancy reasons.

What is it that they want you to improve - your time keeping ? I don't want to go into a big speel about what you can be sacked for and can't, so could you perhaps tell us a few more specific details ?

Time keeping is fine i work my hours plus half hour each day extra without any extra pay

Apparently they want me to take more initative and do things without being told,

i was temping here for 2 months before they offered me a permanent position with a probation period, and i havent chnaged since, so i am not sure i have been here since march....

tranquil_2

DUE DATE LIST

Mrs AliasOmega - 20th November (+1 day and counting)
mickeyme - 21st November 2007
Sadie204 - 27th November
ab7167 (Ali) - 27th November - my M-I-L birthday!
MrsW82 - 1st December 2007 - Not long to go now!
tammyfshr - 1 December 2007
TATOO07 (MY WIFE) - 6th December 2007
Cel - 8th December
kelticangel - 9th December 2007
Ebony - 10th December
Sugarcubed - 11th December
helend - 15th December
jbbonce - 16th december (but hoping to keep my legs crossed til jan)
Beakerange - 18th December (unplanned!! and hoping it will come out earlier)
Nikstar - 23rd December!! unplanned i may add.
flis21 - 25th December (Moved again - according to scan!!!)
bumpybecky - 25th December
Suzukibabe - 28th December
becky_sleaf - 28th December
wilf55 (her daughter, Chelsea) - 29 December 2007
bairnpunter's wife - 29th December 2007
Strawberry laces - 29th December 2007
m77las - 30th Dec (baby no1)
Shelvis - 8 January 2008 (would prefer it around Jan 15th if poss!!)
Yorkshirechick - 12th January
Phatmouse - 12th January 2008
Sunny Angel- 14th January 2008 (I think!!)
Slapps - 15th Jan 08
Scruffy96uk- 16 Jan 08
cazscoob - 18 Jan 08
tbourne - 20 Jan 08
Ciara111-22 Jan 08
nicola1982 - 23rd Jan 08
pinkmilkplease - 26th Jan 08
chocaholic110 - 27th January 08
Ella_ella_ella - 27th January 08
Cathie - 7th February 08
Melly74 - 17th February 08
Liley9 - 18 February 2008
miss_be - 20th February 08
Loopy-loo73 - 21 Feb 08
Bailey - 22 February 08
alison6692 - 24 February 2008
PiscesPrincess - 24th February 2008
Bun - 25th February
Ella29 - 27th February 08
3KIDSNOMONEY - 28th February 08
Dougggie - 2 March 08
Doobees - 4th March 08
svmitche - 4th March 2008
Purplegirluk1 - 6th March 2008
Elliesmum - 8 March 08
mandy2383 - 9th march 2008
ukbBandit - 15 March 2008
Heavenleigh - 24th march 08
Melg1973 - 24th march 08
Newleafer - 27th march 08
Pink Princess 1 - 29th March 08
tranquil - 2nd April 08
redflame705 - 8th April 08
snugglepuss - 9th April 08
MonkeyLady - 20th April 08
machairs - 24th April 2008 (may change after scan)
Kelsi-Blu - 27th April 08
rjh090384 - may 10th 2008!!
JustKeepSwimming - 4th June 2008
Jak - 18th July 2008


TTC LIST

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sjm
Fishcake_random
Lesleydejager
jo_jo
picklesmum
durham_girl
likabu
Bun
jo101
Pooky
emptypocketz
Miss_pink & Mr Pink
Boobylou
lilmrsmullen
jiblets1
Lillian06
ginvzt
Uisge10

BIRTH LIST

casperlarue - Emily Joanne 03.10.07 @ 0255 6lb 12.5oz 10 days early
RenStar - Eva Rose 04.10.07 @14.24 4lbs 110z 18 days early, tiny but perfect in every way!
squashy - Eleanor Grace 6th October, 8lb 11oz
nickydee5 - Alex 7/10/07, 9lb 1oz
sarahh112 - Rowan David - 07/10/07 at 18:46 born 10 days late via emergency c-section weighing in at a tiny 5lb 8oz
SeptemberBaby - Poppy Jean Rose - 07.10.07 at 7:47pm - 8lb 11oz - my OctoberBaby was 11 days late but worth the wait!
jtotheb's wife (twins!) - Charlie and Theo - 8/10/07 almost 7lbs each. 16 days early but entirely expected!
jojo1978 - Amelie Kate-10/10/2007-5.44am-11 days late, weighing a whopping 9lb12.5oz
Agutka - Joseph - 16/10/07 , 8lb 1lz 14 days overdue
Joe_millionaires (wife) - Max Friday 19th October at 07:17 and weighed in at 7lb 14.5oz
fac73 - Elliot - 24/10/07 @ 2.07pm weighing 7lbs 5oz. 12 days late but perfectly cooked!
sunflowergirl - Lucy Rose 27/10/07 6lb 15oz 6.34pm 5 days early.
izoomzoom - Samantha born @ 2250 hrs at home on 03/11/07 weighing 9lb 6oz. 5 days early
Mazcabs - Henry Ferguson Green Sunday 4th November at 5.52am by emergency c section weighing 7lb 6oz
tsstss7 - Archie Edward - Born 5th November at 6.53pm by elective cs weighing 10lb and 11oz. (4.94kg)
Shazy73 - Ellie Mae on Wednesday 7th November, 6 days overdue, weighing 6lb 10oz
Curious George - Daniel Warren Michael - born 8th November at 12:13pm - 8lb 9 1/2ozs by C section
Rince - Sophia Mae arrived 6 days early on 10th Nov at 10:26am 7lb 8oz
Hippychick1 - Seren Eliza arrived 4 days early on 11/11/07 5.21pm
Hopeless Cook - Ellie (Eleanor) Sophie arrived 10 days late on 19th November at 8.21am. 9lbs 1 oz

PROBABLY GIVEN BIRTH BUT TOO WORN OUT TO LOG ON LIST

incognito - 14th October 2007
Felicity - 14th October
beckyC - 22nd October
THE MIDDLEMEN - 3rd November


Didn't realise I just had to add myself to the list - thanks Sugarcubed.

Had my 20 week scan last week- I have a low-lying placenta but apparently this is quite common at the 20 week scan and in 90% of cases it self corrects by 36 weeks? It's the thought of having to have a c-section if it doesn't that's scary! Trying not to think about it until we're nearer the due date.

chocaholic110

tranquil wrote: »

Had my 20 week scan last week- I have a low-lying placenta but apparently this is quite common at the 20 week scan and in 90% of cases it self corrects by 36 weeks? It's the thought of having to have a c-section if it doesn't that's scary! Trying not to think about it until we're nearer the due date.

At my 20 week scan the sonographer said I had a low lying placenta and also fibroids growing across cervix but the consultant said was nothing to worry abut. He said they will wait and see what baby is doing by 36 weeks and then maybe rescan to see what's happening there.

Had 4d scan at weekend and baby is currently head up, feet down, anyone know about when they get into head down position?

Alias_Omega

SeptemberBaby wrote: »

Fingers crossed for Mr & Mrs Alias_Omega! Don't want to rain on your parade but I went 11 days over.....! x

2nd child, so were off to the hospital today for a checkup as not felt the baby move for a few days, and stomach goes tight, then loose.

maybe then can speed things up..

Curious_George_2

chocaholic110 wrote: »

Had 4d scan at weekend and baby is currently head up, feet down, anyone know about when they get into head down position?

they have plenty of room to flip around and around in there if they want too until about 36 / 37 weeks....

the important words in that sentence are if they want too
mine... did not :rolleyes:

MrsW82

Chocoholic101

I've read about things you can do to encourage baby to flip...

Getting down on all fours, and rolling your hips gently is supposed to help. I also found it helped to ease my chronic backache!:rolleyes:


I also read somewhere that babies are "programmed" to turn their heads towards Mum/Dad's voice...So perhaps Daddy to be fancies having a conversation with the lil'un to coax 'em round?! (Must admit my hubby nearly wet himself when I told him this!) :rotfl:

MrsW82

chocaholic110

Thanks, I usually wash at least one floor each day on my hands and knees so hopefully that will help. Also leaning forward over gym ball.

Still early days yet though! And the sonographer last week says she thinks he's starting to turn - he's just going the long way round. Typcal men!

ella_ella_ella

Hi Guys

Eventually had our 4D scan and it was amazing, it really couldn't of been any better. We got loads and loads of printed photos on the day as the baby loved preforming for us, the sonographer was genuinely really excited about it all and said it was one of the best scans.

The baby had the hiccups, was laughing, yawning, sticking her tounge out, smiling, wiggling her toes and for a split second looked like she was giving us a V sign :rotfl:

As you can see im really excited about it. She has the most chubby cheeks, loads of hair, a double chin and her whole face is the spitting image of me as a baby - she is just sooooooooo pretty.