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Determined & Frustrated!

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  • Obsessed is good if it's getting rid of debt ;) I used to have 13 savings accounts open for all sorts of virtual 'pots' and used to check my bank account 2 or 3 times a day lol ....i've calmed down a bit 3 years on ;)

    xx
  • Come on Cheques! I need you to clear so that I can use you for moneysaving!

    Another positive morning

    Today I will...
    • Add ONE more item to Ebay selling
    • Readjust my May spreadsheet to account for current spends - i think things might be a little tight from here on in.... and it's not the 1st yet... :o
    • I will complete ONE survey tonight (unsurprisingly i can't acces the site at work ;) )
    • I managed to spend over £3 yesterday on chocolate - this is not a good thing - I did pay for it with change in my car, but that is clearly not the point - will not do this today
    KUTAT x
    Xmas 2016 #67 £0/£365
    LBM £29,598 :shocked: (29.05.15) DFD June 2021
    29.12.15 - B/card 1 £6813 B/card 2 £3575 Virgin CC £13658 Loan £5842 Next £0 OD £200
    20.06.15 - B/card 1 £4139 B/card 2 £4025 Virgin CC £13100 Loan £7303 Next £58 OD £200
    Diary http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=5256548
  • Busy day at work yesterday, so not much progress AND i spent £1.09 on chocolate on the way home :mad: clearly this is unacceptable...

    I've just updated my spending diary with the DD's that have come out of my account for 1st May. I try to have everything paid at the beginning of the month so that I know where I am. The only one that isn't paid straight away at the mo is a new student loan payment which comes out on 15th, but I have asked for this to changed, so the next payment following this one will be 28th May (I get paid on 25th May)

    So, report on yesterday as follows:

    Add ONE more item to Ebay selling - Failed
    [STRIKE]Readjust my May spreadsheet to account for current spends - i think things might
    be a little tight from here on in.... and it's not the 1st yet... :o [/STRIKE] - DoneI will complete ONE survey tonight (unsurprisingly i can't acces the site at work ;) ) - Failed
    I managed to spend over £3 yesterday on chocolate - this is not a good thing - I did pay for it with change in my car, but that is clearly not the point - will not do this today - Failed!


    Hmm will try harder today - will try drinking more to stop the munchies :)

    KUTAT x
    Xmas 2016 #67 £0/£365
    LBM £29,598 :shocked: (29.05.15) DFD June 2021
    29.12.15 - B/card 1 £6813 B/card 2 £3575 Virgin CC £13658 Loan £5842 Next £0 OD £200
    20.06.15 - B/card 1 £4139 B/card 2 £4025 Virgin CC £13100 Loan £7303 Next £58 OD £200
    Diary http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=5256548
  • OK good news & bad news!

    The bad news is that I spent £14.44 in SM yesterday on cr*p which included £10 cashback

    The good news is that I received all call yesterday re some boots which I returned to a shop, which had split within 6 months. The shop are talking to the manufacturer so fingers crossed there for either replacements or refund

    The other good news is that my chqs have cleared & I have paid £50 to CC1 :j

    I'm facing a real challenge today though, as I'm taking students to a large equestrian retailer to do some research, but one of my worst habits is going on trips & shopping for myself when I'm out and about :mad: I'll do my very best this morning NOT TO BUY ANYTHING!!

    Will report in later

    KUTAT x
    Xmas 2016 #67 £0/£365
    LBM £29,598 :shocked: (29.05.15) DFD June 2021
    29.12.15 - B/card 1 £6813 B/card 2 £3575 Virgin CC £13658 Loan £5842 Next £0 OD £200
    20.06.15 - B/card 1 £4139 B/card 2 £4025 Virgin CC £13100 Loan £7303 Next £58 OD £200
    Diary http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=5256548
  • Woohoo! Managed not to buy anything, except 80p on chocolate on the way home :o
    Xmas 2016 #67 £0/£365
    LBM £29,598 :shocked: (29.05.15) DFD June 2021
    29.12.15 - B/card 1 £6813 B/card 2 £3575 Virgin CC £13658 Loan £5842 Next £0 OD £200
    20.06.15 - B/card 1 £4139 B/card 2 £4025 Virgin CC £13100 Loan £7303 Next £58 OD £200
    Diary http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=5256548
  • bargainbetty
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    Could I suggest that you include a pack of treat size chocolate bars in your shopping budget? Lidl and Aldi do packs of 16 or 20 for not very much money.

    Take a couple of the small bars with you, leave a couple in the car. Then, when you need chocolate, you can have it, but in a much more controlled and cost-friendly manner.

    Good luck
    Some days, it's just not worth chewing through the leather straps....
    LB moment - March 2006. DFD - 1 June 2012!!! DEBT FREE!



    May grocery challenge £45.61/£120
  • well done on not spending too much, but I agree with bargainbetty, I would buy a multi pack in the supermarket or £land and put one in my bag (perhaps not chocolate once it gets too warm though lol) xx
  • Thanks for the inspiration BargainBetty & DFW321 - I've just returned from a sneaky trip to the local Lidl & paid £5.68 on snacks to last me until next Friday at work :) will do my best to ration myself & not purchase anything else snack-related....

    My small spends over the last couple of days have really made me realise how my money dribbles away on snacks - now I've discovered Lidl, I want to not spend anything on snacks between now and next Friday - I'll bring sandwiches to work next week

    KUTAT x
    Xmas 2016 #67 £0/£365
    LBM £29,598 :shocked: (29.05.15) DFD June 2021
    29.12.15 - B/card 1 £6813 B/card 2 £3575 Virgin CC £13658 Loan £5842 Next £0 OD £200
    20.06.15 - B/card 1 £4139 B/card 2 £4025 Virgin CC £13100 Loan £7303 Next £58 OD £200
    Diary http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=5256548
  • Hmm difficult times... had a blazing row with DH on Saturday :( resulting in me driving off & buying a toolbox for £19.99 from B&Q (don't ask, I have very odd shopping urges :o ). Went home & talked about issues (not money related thankfully) and was otherwise a spend free day!!

    On the upside, I earnt £95 from teaching yesterday, which I will pay into the bank tomorrow, then straight onto Virgin CC, thereby meeting target overpayments for May - I'll update as soon as Ive done it :) Four more lessons booked in for this week, so fingers are crossed for more cash to pay to CC

    I desperately want a horsebox. DH knows this and offered to buy the one I have been looking at using his CC. I've been very grown up about it all & said that s**'s law that if we do this, one of the cars will die, or the roof will fall off, or something will go drastically wrong & we won't be able to pay for it. I know I MUST be sensible & stay focussed on paying off debt, and I know it's a luxury item - I'm lucky in that I have some good friends that I can catch lifts to shows etc for a diesel contribution - but the horsebox is a long-term goal - I would dearly love the independance of owning my own. Oh well, I guess I should use this as inspiration to get rid of those debts

    Today is a planned spend day...
    • SJ clinic (£35 + £20 diesel)
    • Petrol fill up for my car (approx £45)
    • Pay for bedding, wormer & grass seed (£74)
    Expensive, but all accounted for - makes a change really!!

    KUTAT x
    Xmas 2016 #67 £0/£365
    LBM £29,598 :shocked: (29.05.15) DFD June 2021
    29.12.15 - B/card 1 £6813 B/card 2 £3575 Virgin CC £13658 Loan £5842 Next £0 OD £200
    20.06.15 - B/card 1 £4139 B/card 2 £4025 Virgin CC £13100 Loan £7303 Next £58 OD £200
    Diary http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=5256548
  • Better start to the week, even if it is Tuesday...

    Just banked the cash I made over the weekend, and transfered £38 from PayPal made from Ebay sales (the remainder following fees)

    Soooo... £133 paid straight to Virgin CC :j
    Xmas 2016 #67 £0/£365
    LBM £29,598 :shocked: (29.05.15) DFD June 2021
    29.12.15 - B/card 1 £6813 B/card 2 £3575 Virgin CC £13658 Loan £5842 Next £0 OD £200
    20.06.15 - B/card 1 £4139 B/card 2 £4025 Virgin CC £13100 Loan £7303 Next £58 OD £200
    Diary http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=5256548
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