Worst Time Of My Life Ever!

southwester_2

Im going now to try and gt some sense out of her and hopefully sleep at some time.

Thanks to all

saffronflowers

Take care will be thinking of you!

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MushyPeas

((((SW)))) I'm so sorry to read your news, it is so devastating for you. However, I think it is really positive that you're able to go to Relate to get some answers. Thinking of you.

MPxx

immoral_angeluk

OH hun I'm so sorry. I haven't read the replies but just wanted to offer you massive hugs and hope that you can sort something out.

Snaggles

Southwester, I'm so sorry to hear your news, I'm gutted for you. I'm not very good in situations like this, I tend to say the wrong thing and put my foot in my mouth, but I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am and how I am thinking about you. I really hope you can work things out. Love Snaggles x

taxi73

Southwester...so sorry to hear your news...it's so hard for you at this moment but I can see hope for you...you have an appointment at relate and you seem to know what the problem is.Maybe you can get some answers from her tonight..if not...there's still hope even if you have a little break but she doesn't want you to leave and says she still loves you...I hope you manage to get it sorted...sending you hugs xxx

LouieB

I wish you all the best, I am actually going through something similar at the moment, OH has decided he needs some space to decide what he wants, this was 5 days ago, and I can can honestly say I understand what your feeling right now. I like you have many questions, and have also been asked for space, which whilst I understand it, it doesnt really ease your pain when you need answers. Good luck x

quietheart

Trouble is, it sounds like she doesn't know what she thinks. Try not to pressure her into saying something she doesn't mean. My friend was in this situation a couple of years ago, I can see now that they needed a break from each other to see all they would miss. Life isn't easy on your own with a child or away from your child. Relate is a great move, see where you go from there and try not to rush any decisions, just baby steps.
Sending you lots of luck. You'll get there, try and stay strong.

beemuzed

Southwester - can't offer any constructive advice as not had this happen. I think the fact that you are both going to Relate sounds positive. Just sending you loads of ((HUGS)). take care.

LookingAhead

Poor SW. I'm really sorry to read this.

I hope some time and space will help to sort out this emotional jigsaw puzzle.

I've sort of been in your wife's shoes (I've not been married though and I have no children and my relationship was on the rocks anyway blah blah)

But I can only imagine she feels terrible about herself and sick about what she has done to you. She'll be feeling absolutely disgusted with herself. And to see you hurt will cause her so much pain too.

(That's not supposed to be an excuse or let off for her by the way.)

If she didn't really love you and want to make a go of things I am thinking she would have jumped at the chance to get you out of the house when you offered. I'm thinking she'd be much more resolute & cold about things if she'd made a firm decision in her mind....

Don't give up hope SW.

Thinking of you.

LA x