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Worst Time Of My Life Ever!

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  • affordmylife
    affordmylife Posts: 1,224 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hi southwester been checking in every day but no posting. Just wanted to check how u are.

    Hope all is well. If not here is the place to be. You have support here.
    All the best.
  • dianadors
    dianadors Posts: 801 Forumite
    500 Posts
    Hi SOuthwester
    Thought about you a lot over the weekend - hope you had a good one.
  • Hi all

    Completely lost the plot yesterday, her cousin came around to show us the new baby with his lover, whilst her OH was at home, wasnt happy!! I knew the situation but didnt want to be there.

    I actually walked out last night at 1800hrs but then went back at 2200, walked for miles, thinking. She sent me texts asking me to come back home, I think she thought I was leaving, that wasnt my intention, I just needed space.

    The weekend away is next weekend
    22/07/07 Debt - Tesco 17644 (6.1%) - Now 10500
    hsbc - 2000 - now 0 (12.9%) :T
    Halifax - 3500 now o(0%) :T
    Barclays - 1500 - now 0 (5.5%) :T
    ==================================
    Cleared 6th July 2010
  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    perhaps the threat of you leaving (although you weren't) will make her reaslise that you are worth fighting for.

    Did the walk help you clear your head?
    Current debt - £16,300 :(
    Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek:
    :ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A
  • No not really, killed me though, I ran 10 miles in the morning!!
    22/07/07 Debt - Tesco 17644 (6.1%) - Now 10500
    hsbc - 2000 - now 0 (12.9%) :T
    Halifax - 3500 now o(0%) :T
    Barclays - 1500 - now 0 (5.5%) :T
    ==================================
    Cleared 6th July 2010
  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    Just think of all the exercise!
    Current debt - £16,300 :(
    Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek:
    :ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A
  • dianadors
    dianadors Posts: 801 Forumite
    500 Posts
    You need to listen to her to find out why she did what she did. There will be a reason. And you have to be prepared to accept what she says. You are obviously still not communicating well. If you want to PM me, you can.
  • Hi all

    Completely lost the plot yesterday, her cousin came around to show us the new baby with his lover, whilst her OH was at home, wasnt happy!! I knew the situation but didnt want to be there.

    I'm a bit confused here over the genders/relationships mentioned. Whose baby is it (apart fromthe cousin?) I know this isn't important but I worry when I can't fathom something out:o

    Sorry things have taken a temporary downward turn for you SW. Keep trying though as your wife seems genuinely scared of losing you. Surely a good sign.

    Take care
    Imp
  • Its her cousins, crap isnt it.

    Going downhill fast Im afraid Imp.
    22/07/07 Debt - Tesco 17644 (6.1%) - Now 10500
    hsbc - 2000 - now 0 (12.9%) :T
    Halifax - 3500 now o(0%) :T
    Barclays - 1500 - now 0 (5.5%) :T
    ==================================
    Cleared 6th July 2010
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    hey sw, you ok today hon? PM me if you fancy a natter, sitting at my puter meant to be working but kinda bored, loads of time to gas if you like.
    Big hugs
    p
    xx
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
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