Worst Time Of My Life Ever!

silkglade

ZTD wrote: »

No, she isn't going because of what she did. Not because of you.

I totally agree with you ZTD

If SHE hadn't done what she had DONE then this situatiuon would not now be a problem, it is Her guilt that is stopping Her.

I do also think that if she dosent go then it is a GOOD sign that things are moving in the Right direction

southwester_2

Hi Silk, sorry only just got to PC

Talked about it last night and I have offered to go all day and have a day together on our own and then onto the party. Not sure if I have done the right thing, marraige more important than cricket!!

southwester_2

Also I think I have been too negative recently so will be positive from now on, cant do anymore, what will be will be, need to face reality and move on if it doesnt work

pania

thats the attitude sw welldone! Know how big a sacrifice cricket is also (OH is a nut and will not miss a day come hell or high water drives me bonkers!) so she must know you are making quite a big sacrifice for her. Good luck to you. xx

dreams_R_free

southwester wrote: »

Hi Silk, sorry only just got to PC

Talked about it last night and I have offered to go all day and have a day together on our own and then onto the party. Not sure if I have done the right thing, marraige more important than cricket!!

I hope that was a good decision, southwester.

I feel that although she was the one who put your marriage in jeopardy it's you who are making all the sacrifices now. She should be doing more to try to keep YOU rather than the other way round. Good grief, southwester, you've already done more than most men would have done. Women don't find 'doormats' particularly attractive.

Sorry to be blunt here and the last thing I want is to upset you as I've followed your diary from day 1 and have been willing you to succeed every step of the way.

southwester_2

That was my worry

southwester_2

Might go back on that decision, !!!

blackangeluk

Impomdasp wrote: »

I hope that was a good decision, southwester.

I feel that although she was the one who put your marriage in jeopardy it's you who are making all the sacrifices now. She should be doing more to try to keep YOU rather than the other way round. Good grief, southwester, you've already done more than most men would have done. Women don't find 'doormats' particularly attractive.
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I agree

southwester_2

Im not a bad looking doormat!!!

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catewithers

I don't think you're a doormat - attractive or not! I think you're just trying to make things work.

I think it's a good thing to do. As long as it's clear it's a one off and you intend to spend the time together I think it's a helpful thing to do. Hope you have a lovely time.