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Worst Time Of My Life Ever!
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That does and I was very lucky that I just had myself to worry about. Oh and his brother who was made a scape goat by my ex's family grrr!
But you will get through it. Maybe just writing it down and not giving it to her will help.Current debt - £16,300
Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek::ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A0 -
No you are right I will write another letter and see what happens. The son is adored by both of us and as she says everything else in our relationship is great , my son will absolutely break his heart if we split but I know I cannot stay in a one way loving relationship!22/07/07 Debt - Tesco 17644 (6.1%) - Now 10500
hsbc - 2000 - now 0 (12.9%) :T
Halifax - 3500 now o(0%) :T
Barclays - 1500 - now 0 (5.5%) :T
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Cleared 6th July 20100 -
This is true. My parents divorced when I was about 8 and through my own choice I've not seen my father since I was 12.
My Mum battled for 17 years and then realised that one day I would grow up and she would be left in a married with a man she hated. Give it a go, but at the end of the day you need to do what is best for you.
But write it down... I wasn't going to post mine.... then all of a sudden it was in the post. eek!!Current debt - £16,300
Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek::ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A0 -
I will, Ill let you know what happens22/07/07 Debt - Tesco 17644 (6.1%) - Now 10500
hsbc - 2000 - now 0 (12.9%) :T
Halifax - 3500 now o(0%) :T
Barclays - 1500 - now 0 (5.5%) :T
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Cleared 6th July 20100 -
We are going to a wedding tomorrow, think that might bring it home to her.
Cant say im looking forward to the service but am sure looking forward to the beer after22/07/07 Debt - Tesco 17644 (6.1%) - Now 10500
hsbc - 2000 - now 0 (12.9%) :T
Halifax - 3500 now o(0%) :T
Barclays - 1500 - now 0 (5.5%) :T
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Cleared 6th July 20100 -
It's not easy, I had my first wedding about 6 months after we split... Stressful I was ok until someone as how I was doing!!!!
But try and enjoy yourself, is it friend or family?Current debt - £16,300
Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek::ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A0 -
Friend, we are staying overnight in the hotel where the reception is in Birmingham22/07/07 Debt - Tesco 17644 (6.1%) - Now 10500
hsbc - 2000 - now 0 (12.9%) :T
Halifax - 3500 now o(0%) :T
Barclays - 1500 - now 0 (5.5%) :T
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Cleared 6th July 20100 -
try and stay positive, you never know being away from familiar surroundings may be good for you both. So neutral ground.
Try to have a good weekend.Current debt - £16,300
Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek::ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A0 -
Yep could be, we will have a good time whatever.
It may hit it home to her, who knows22/07/07 Debt - Tesco 17644 (6.1%) - Now 10500
hsbc - 2000 - now 0 (12.9%) :T
Halifax - 3500 now o(0%) :T
Barclays - 1500 - now 0 (5.5%) :T
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Cleared 6th July 20100 -
Let me know how you get on. I'm not around over the weekend but will be first thing Monday morning.
Good luck and maybe your right and it will remind her what is important.Current debt - £16,300
Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek::ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A0
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