The Sex was amazing??

notanewuser

lori64 wrote: »

Im 48yrs old, Im very much aware that certain parts of our bodies feel nice to the touch!!
For me, the emotional and physical is the only thing that WORKS for me!
My question was....people who say, she/he was ok, but IT WAS ONLY SEX? What about it was ONLY SEX??
What do people get out of having sex with people they dont give a monkeys about? If I was to have sex with a man I didnt care about, my skin would crawl!
:rotfl:

That's YOU though. In the same way that you might be blonde and built like a builder, not everybody is like you.

I've had mindblowing sex with strangers (literally almost passed out with pleasure and definitely saw stars) and rubbish sex with long term partners. Sometimes familiarity breeds contempt. Sometimes the sex is so emotional it has made me cry. I've had lovers that could "get me there" just by whispering things in my ear, without a single touch, the attraction has been that strong.

Certainly in my 20s the thought of carnal pleasure with a bloke who !!!!!!ed off in the morning and washed his own pants was exciting. :rotfl:

lori64

Cherry_Bomb wrote: »

Assuming this isn't a thinly veiled attempt to knock one out whilst strangers explain to you what constitutes a great sex session (in their opinion)

There are chat lines for this kind of thing you know....:cool:

I would rate an orgasm pretty highly. If you're having sex for the simple reason of pleasure then of course you want to get something out of it otherwise what's the point?

OP I don't know if maybe your sexual experiences have been limited but when it comes to emotionless sex it's just about that moment. The excitement of knowing you're going to have sex and hoping this person lives up the expectation you've built up in your head from the obvious flirting that's been going on since you met.

Have you never experienced that wanting?

Sexual experience limited? lol

No, Im middle aged, Im talking from experience!
The point of my post was to ask what peoples idea off amazing sex was. Still havent had an answer though:rotfl:

lori64

Kirri wrote: »

You can have an amazing sexual connection with someone you are not emotionally attached to..

never slept with someone you shouldn't have because you just can't resist it?

Yes, I have! BUT, the fantasy was better than the reality!
Sadly, Im one of those people who need a mental and physical connection to make it work! Lifes a !!!!!! lol:rotfl:

Ladyhawk

Amazing sex leaves you gasping, weak knee-ed and unable to talk. Its just makes you awesomely happy.

Good sex leaves you smiling and satisfied, but not in that taking leave of your senses way.

Average sex - are you nearly there yet? It leaves you counting the ceiling tiles and wondering what chores you need to do once its all over.

Bad Sex - ouch - I've suddenly developed a headache, do you mind if we stop now?

Mrs_Ryan

I have a very low sex drive so for me sex is not the be all and end all. To me what would be better is just the foreplay. My friend thinks I'm strange because theres this guy I like a lot (its a bit more than that, but its a complex situation and one which Im not going into on here) but I wouldnt have sex with him. Not because i'm not attracted to him or anything but to me other stuff means more and tbh having sex with him would screw with my mind so much it wouldnt be worth it.
I've had my share of sex - with men and women, I dont mind admitting - but I cant say I've been absolutely amazed by most of it. Its more other stuff thats amazed me kisses and stuff. I guess it would be nice to have mind-blowing sex but Im not sure if I ever will experience it.

i_love_it

scamps1966 wrote: »

What is an orgasm? I've never had one!!

Its when you see the £400 shoes you are in love with have just been reduced to £75
There is only one pair left, they are your size
even though you realise you left your credit card in the machine at the champagne bar, you just have enough cash left in your purse for the purchase.
Orgasm

System

i_love_it wrote: »

Its when you see the £400 shoes you are in love with have just been reduced to £75
There is only one pair left, they are your size
even though you realise you left your credit card in the machine at the champagne bar, you just have enough cash left in your purse for the purchase.
Orgasm

Nah thats a shoegasm

I have them lots

BugglyB

thorsoak wrote: »

No - not "a way I don't approve of" - just that, imo - which is as valid an opinion as the opinion of any other poster - a way which brings sex/making love - which I've always found fantastic/wonderful/ funny/demanding/giving/rude/raunchy depending upon the time - brings it down to the level of grabbing a big mac! Satiating an appetite at the time - is that really enough? Not for me:A:rotfl:

Not necessarily 'grabbing a big mac'.

Perhaps more comparable to going to a beautiful city you have never visited before, going to a lovely restaurant and savouring exotic local cuisine cooked in a way you never dreamed you'd try, eating til you couldn't possibly try another bite, and leaving with a huge smile on your face.

You never need to go back to that place again, in fact if you did enough times it might become boring and mundane like your local pub. But you will always have the memories

daisiegg

lori64 wrote: »

Sexual experience limited? lol

No, Im middle aged, Im talking from experience!
The point of my post was to ask what peoples idea off amazing sex was. Still havent had an answer though:rotfl:

What?! You have had loads of answers!

jetplane

Cherry_Bomb wrote: »

Sometimes all you need is a Big Mac to hit the spot then you're on your way again :cool:

Yes I think I met him on a trip to Aberdeen in the early 80's

lori64 wrote: »

Sexual experience limited? lol

No, Im middle aged, Im talking from experience!
The point of my post was to ask what peoples idea off amazing sex was. Still havent had an answer though:rotfl:

Middle aged or not, experienced or not, you probably haven't had amazing sex otherwise you would see that you have had many answers.

Ladyhawk wrote: »

Amazing sex leaves you gasping, weak knee-ed and unable to talk. Its just makes you awesomely happy.

Good sex leaves you smiling and satisfied, but not in that taking leave of your senses way.

There's your answer amazing sex takes away your senses even if it's just for a moment in time, whether it be with someone you hardly know or the love of your life. As for all of this talk about emotional connection is passion not an emotion, excitement, anticipation?