The Sex was amazing??

geoffky

Its when you have to change the sheets and turn the mattress over..:cool:

Ladyhawk

geoffky wrote: »

Its when you have to change the sheets and turn the mattress over..:cool:

:rotfl:

A man after my own heart.

nickyhutch

VestanPance wrote: »

I certainly don't have self-esteem issues. If anything many people view me a extremely confident and sometimes as aloof/arrogant, both of which I'd agree with to some extent.

I've moved on, just not in the way many would. My small group of friends do have morals. People who I have been friends with in the past and found lacking in them I have removed from my life. To be completely honest I do think the majority of people are untrustworthy. Most people do the friendly act in public, but their actions show their true self and often contradicts the "nice" personality they are trying to sell.

Does the fact that you have friends that have morals not allow you to think that you might be able to find another partner who has them too? Your ex has obviously hurt you an awful lot - do you want her to ruin the rest of your life too?

I find the bit in red quite offensive, to be honest.

nickyhutch

gozaimasu wrote: »

I find this perspective very interesting. I wish I did a degree in psychology. In fact, the kinds of people I see on public transport and out in the street, I wish I was doing a PhD in rudeness so that I could stop and legitimately question why they were acting in such a manner!

Presumably you find Veston's comment offensive because you see yourself as honest and trustworthy; taking it personally.

I am a trustworthy and honest individual, and I don't find it offensive at all. I agree with Veston - the majority of people are horrible.

There's nothing in life I can do to make other people more polite, considerate and compassionate towards other people's viewpoints or behaviours. I doubt even the most educated in society could achieve this, because once you try to teach people who to be better, they get offended and refuse to listen.

No, they really aren't.

poet123

I think the opposite, the majority behave well, so the minority ( perhaps a sizeable number) who are truly horrible (and no one denies they exist) stand out.

MarilynMonroe_2

To me it's when you take clothes of getting to the bedroom so you leave a trail and then moving around the room in various positions, glowing and not sweating, no leg cramps and definitly no accidental trumps!
Thats what it would be like in my head!

VestanPance

nickyhutch wrote: »

Does the fact that you have friends that have morals not allow you to think that you might be able to find another partner who has them too? Your ex has obviously hurt you an awful lot - do you want her to ruin the rest of your life too?

I find the bit in red quite offensive, to be honest.

No, I would never put myself in the position of trusting someone to the level that is required to have a relationship. I fail to see how my ex is ruining the rest of my life. I have set many objectives and have already met some and I will meet every single one.

I fail to see what I wrote as being offensive. It's my opinion on that subject. On a subject such as that only opinion exists as it can't be measured.

sjc3

VestanPance wrote: »

No, I would never put myself in the position of trusting someone to the level that is required to have a relationship. I fail to see how my ex is ruining the rest of my life.

Is it down to your ex cheating on you that has caused you to have such trust issues? If so then her behaviour has left you in the position of not feeling able to have any further relationships hasn't it.

It seems as if you have decided this is your way forward and are carving out a new life that you want. I think many people would struggle to find the prospect of not having anyone significant in their life ever again a difficult thing to entertain. Which is why they question things.

nickyhutch

VestanPance wrote: »

No, I would never put myself in the position of trusting someone to the level that is required to have a relationship. I fail to see how my ex is ruining the rest of my life. I have set many objectives and have already met some and I will meet every single one.

I fail to see what I wrote as being offensive. It's my opinion on that subject. On a subject such as that only opinion exists as it can't be measured.

You fail to see how she's ruining the rest of your life? By stopping you from ever having another relationship? You're letting a bad relationship with one person taint the way you look at all people, and keep you single for the rest of your life. Objectives are great - they're even better if you can share them with someone.

nickyhutch

gozaimasu wrote: »

I suppose I should have phrased it to include "most of the people I come into contact with on a daily basis...".

You need to move in different circles then