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Ok, so now my dating woes!

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  • aileth
    aileth Posts: 2,822 Forumite
    Welshwoofs wrote: »
    I had a great one around the same time as the short guy. I met a chap (once!) who about 15 minutes into the meeting said that he was going to have to leave because although he found me attractive and thought we had a lot in common, he absolutely hated 'posh' accents and that he never associated with people who had them. :rotfl:

    I have to admit that I just laughed and wished him all the best.

    Oooh sounds so similar to me, apart from he didn't leave, but I knew the date was over when he asked what drink I wanted and I said gin and tonic, he looked flabberghasted and then wouldn't shut up all evening about how 'posh' it was!
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,789 Forumite
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    tara747 wrote: »
    I don't find short men attractive at all, so I wouldn't go on a second date. Full stop. No matter how nice he was, I couldn't do it. Shallow, maybe, but there you go.
    I wonder what women would say on here if I stated I really found women with small breasts not attractive at all?

    I only really find short women attractive and at about 5'5 I have never seemed to have a problem finding them tbh.
    Saying that, I ended up marrying someone slightly taller than me :p

    So there you go, small women with large dumplings, please put your name down on the "short"list in case I get divorced :rotfl:
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
  • krlyr
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    I wonder what women would say on here if I stated I really found women with small breasts not attractive at all?

    As a woman (and one not that blessed in the chest department either!) ..nothing! You're not saying woman with small breasts are unattractive, full stop. Your taste, your choice. Like I said, I'm not keen on beards. Or blue eyes. Exceptionally tall (because I'm only 5'3), exceptionally slim, chin dimples..lots of physical features I don't find attractive (at face value..not saying I couldn't come around to the idea). I'm not saying there's anything wrong with people with those features though, so don't see why anyone would take offense at my personal taste, or at yours.
  • VestanPance
    VestanPance Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    krlyr wrote: »
    As a woman (and one not that blessed in the chest department either!) ..nothing! You're not saying woman with small breasts are unattractive, full stop. Your taste, your choice. Like I said, I'm not keen on beards. Or blue eyes. Exceptionally tall (because I'm only 5'3), exceptionally slim, chin dimples..lots of physical features I don't find attractive (at face value..not saying I couldn't come around to the idea). I'm not saying there's anything wrong with people with those features though, so don't see why anyone would take offense at my personal taste, or at yours.

    Well I'm out! :rotfl:

    Although I'm not sure if I'm exceptionally slim, but I do have distance runners long skinny legs and arms!

    Also to go against the grain I've never seen the draw of women with large chests that most men have. I'm all about the legs.
  • krlyr
    krlyr Posts: 5,993 Forumite
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    Good job I'm not single then :rotfl:
  • Joons
    Joons Posts: 629 Forumite
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    krlyr wrote: »
    Good job I'm not single then :rotfl:
    Don't count your chickens and all that lol.
  • Joons
    Joons Posts: 629 Forumite
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    5,1 would be too small for me and I'm only 5,3, sorry for all those policitally correct out there but there's something not right about a man being smaller than you, it doesn't feel right. It reminded me of an episode of Sex and the City where Samantha is having a really good date with a guy, it isn't until he gets up off the stool that his minitureness becomes apparent, surprisingly Samantha prevails and goes on a 2nd date - the deal breaker was him getting up and her seeing the label on his jacket displaying `boys department` haha.
  • scooby088
    scooby088 Posts: 3,385 Forumite
    I guess I'm in the minority here anything with a heart beat is fine with me, unless you got a big wart on the end of your nose :rotfl:
  • *max*
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    I'm 5'8, so relatively tall for a woman. I wouldn't mind if the guy was say, 5'7...but any shorter I just couldn't, no matter how attractive he was in any other ways. 5'1 is...very very short, so I don't blame you for being taken aback. However, if you think you can get past it and won't be leading him on,then there's no problem really. I know I personally couldn't though.
  • Joons
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    scooby088 wrote: »
    I guess I'm in the minority here anything with a heart beat is fine with me, unless you got a big wart on the end of your nose :rotfl:
    Haha, so warts in other places are A ok???
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