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Balancing not just the budget

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  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    MuffinTops wrote: »
    Hello Rosa,

    Well done on the negotiations. Hopefully your solicitors absence won't cause any delays for you. Are you dreaming about the changes you'll be making in "your" home?

    I used to be the same with the shop & scan, particularly with receipts. I do sometimes take photos of the receipts on my phone and then just email them to my computer which can be a little workaround?

    It's understandable that the new year goal lists haven't happened yet but it's great that you're getting clearer ideas now.

    MTxx

    Hi MT

    I used to do photos on the phone but the last couple of weeks I CBA doing even that, probably because of everything else going on.

    Yes I'm enjoying thinking about what I can do with MY new home! And a benefit I hadn't expected is that I feel much clearer about decluttering - now I can think whether it will work or be needed in the new house, and know what that means, rather than wondering if I will need it in a vague possible future house. I don't know why I thought I was ever likely to live somewhere that would need all the towels and tableware I seem to have collected :o :rotfl:


    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • Hi MT

    I don't know why I thought I was ever likely to live somewhere that would need all the towels and tableware I seem to have collected :o :rotfl:
    Rosa xx
    I am the same. I have enough china to start a restaurant. Enough towels for a hotel...your post about aspirational life and actual life rings a very loud bell with me. You are going to your new home with a clear head :)
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  • Hello Flower <3


    Good luck with the decluttering - its an on-going misson!


    Thinking of you and wishing you well.


    Sam x
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  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,421 Forumite
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    Nice one on getting the price dropped. Your broker will inform the mortgage company and they will issue a revised offer usually, although in theory they can just note the change and write formally agreeing to it, they usually do go down the revised off route.

    Towels. Hmmm. Yes. I got rid of a LOT of those when we got the bathroom done! :D
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    Balance as at 01/09/23 = £115,000.00 Balance as at 31/12/23 = £112,000.00
    Balance as at 31/08/24 = £105,400.00 Balance as at 31/12/24 = £102,500.00
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  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    Nice one on getting the price dropped. Your broker will inform the mortgage company and they will issue a revised offer usually, although in theory they can just note the change and write formally agreeing to it, they usually do go down the revised off route.

    Towels. Hmmm. Yes. I got rid of a LOT of those when we got the bathroom done! :D

    Thanks EH :)

    Very pleased I asked - I would have been cross about it forever if I'd just accepted the extra costs, so figured I had nothing to lose. It won't cover the full amount because that would have dropped the price back to a level they'd already refused, so I figured there was no point doing that - just pointed out the issue and said I would contribute part but expected a reduction to also address the issue.

    Now just thinking about all the packing... :eek:


    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • ZTD
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    Yes, I have thrown out an awful lot of heels, nail polish and make up after accepting I am never going to be the kind of person who cares about them :rotfl:

    I came to that realisation from a very early age, so never bought that sort of stuff in the first place... :p
    Books are a completely different matter...

    Yes - aren't they.
    thank goodness I got a Kindle!

    Books can be a 3D wallpaper - kindles can't... :rotfl:
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  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    Just sorting things out ready for payday - it's not quite yet but I have other things on the day so wanted to get the budgeting done now. It means slightly cheating with the date in YNAB but I know it's due and correct because I have the payslip so I don't feel too guilty!

    All looking OK and I have put some more money aside for the move. I should also have a payment from my extra contract coming next month, so that will help too.

    One thing that suddenly astonished me... I have paid my credit card bill in advance of payday, because I was going through online banking for the month. It felt a bit odd. Then I realised that it was fine, because even though it's a credit card the money was already allocated from my LAST paycheque*. Guess I'm still adjusting :rotfl:


    Rosa xx


    * And thanks to YNAB, I could see this :)
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
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  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    ZTD wrote: »
    Books can be a 3D wallpaper - kindles can't... :rotfl:

    Aha - insulation! :D
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • Hello Flower <3

    Good luck with the decluttering - its an on-going misson!

    Thinking of you and wishing you well.

    Sam x

    Thank you lovely Sam :A right back atcha :D

    I am still in awe of your 3bay genius - there are two LKB dresses that need to be decluttered and have I got round to listing them? ... :o


    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,421 Forumite
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    Good work on the CC bill payment. Do you think that makes you an official grown-up?! :eek::o:rotfl:
    🎉 MORTGAGE FREE (First time!) 30/09/2016 🎉 And now we go again…New mortgage taken 01/09/23 🏡
    Balance as at 01/09/23 = £115,000.00 Balance as at 31/12/23 = £112,000.00
    Balance as at 31/08/24 = £105,400.00 Balance as at 31/12/24 = £102,500.00
    £100k barrier broken 1/4/25
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