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am i wrong to feel so hurt?

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  • saddo1
    saddo1 Posts: 27 Forumite
    nowhere have i suggested im a man, it was assumed and i didnt challenge it as i wasnt sure it was relevant
  • saddo1
    saddo1 Posts: 27 Forumite
    dont think shes a philanderer. i have the feedback i was after so i will act according to how i feel, with some objective help. tahnks to those of you who have been constructive. wasnt after character assasination just some objective feedback, which i have
  • yvonne13_2
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    Anyway OP I hope you sort out what your going to do as you cannot carry on like this in the new year.
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  • ab.da54
    ab.da54 Posts: 4,381 Forumite
    lika_86 wrote: »
    I don't think the OP is playing headgames, I assumed when the OP said she was female that she is either bi or homosexual and so in a relationship with a woman.

    Agree.

    I don't think the OP is playing games either and it doesn't actually matter what their sexual orientation is.
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  • But being 2 women may explain why she has only dropped in at Christmas. Maybe didnt want to explain where she was to extended family? Maybe not as ready to openly share the relationship for fear of the response?

    One of my good friends is gay and very open with parents, friends etc but I know that his granny and great aunts don't know and he wouldn't really want to share it with them at Christmas.
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  • Just out of interest OP, is her ex male or female?
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  • sharnad
    sharnad Posts: 9,904 Forumite
    Sounds like she likes you for the things you give her rather than you. Stop giving her things for a while see if she stays
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  • My WH Smiths doesn't sell champagne glasses......gosh I feel robbed now!!
  • DUTR
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    yvonne13 wrote: »
    You shouldn't give to receive.

    Except when it comes to love.
  • Strange! You should look for some other.
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