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  • Morning LL,

    Like you said, sometimes things happen for a reason, and even though finacially you would never have thrown your lodger out, him leaving will make you sort things out, and it will be so much nicer living without a stranger in the house.

    Just imagine if hubby gets work for at least £300 pm which should'nt be hard now he has a car, and you also don't have the extra electric, water and everything else an extra person uses up in your home. AND you can do the ironing in the nude if you fancy haha:rotfl:.

    Have a great day xxx
  • wow that sounds like a dangerous past time haha
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  • lurvlyloz wrote: »
    wow that sounds like a dangerous past time haha


    hmmm maybe not ironing - try hoovering :rotfl::rotfl:
  • haha yep all that naked time i can just strutt around....errrr not a nice thought hahaha

    will be ok im sure. last night i was panicy. today not so much :)
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  • ooo yesterday was NSD to i can up date that :)
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  • SO all change.

    the lodger may not not be moving out. turns out he doesnt even want to move out and his mum had guilted him in to it. he was drunk yesterday but went round last to say he'd told me aboutmoving out & sort out dates and stuff and his mum and his sister started havign ago and telling him what he will be doing int he house & all the rules he will have to obide to and change his ways (he is fine now although he used to be a bad lad and thats why he is living as a lodger because none of his family want him) so he thought sod this and told her where to go and it all kicked off and she rang me to go and pick him up coz she was scared.
    i went round, walked in walked him out & he was fine with me. turned round & started sobbing his little heart out and begged to stay with me.

    i guess we'll see what the cold light of day brings but i hope he stays for his own good really as he's just being used through convience by his family....and obvs i want the rent. but he's part of the family now so its more than that.

    what a to-do.

    in othe rnews...yesterday was a NSD :)

    this weekend i'll be staying at home all weekend so should be NSDs or at least very LSDs :)

    hope you're all ok on this frosty morning. still doesnt feel like christmas thought?
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  • Heavens, Sounds like he is much better with you. Might have to scrap the naked hoovering then. Nevermind ;).

    He sounds like a sweet lad that really needs you. Bless him.

    You are racking up the NSD's.:T I have only managed 8 so far, but after this week, I have finished all my shopping and bits so should be no reason to be buying anything.


    Hope you have a great day x
  • he is. he's a right mumbly little chav...but he's now our mumbly little chav haha. i am all set for mothing a teenage boy!

    SS you're doing great on the NSDs. i'm thinking all over xams i'm not going many places so will be able to get a fair few NSDs in there :)
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  • so yesterday was a NSD number 7 for me....but i did do the food shop but that isnt counted as i only count my personal bank account.

    did the full food shop in a!di for the first time & i have to say i am pleasently suprised. i spent £44 on what i reckon would of been a good £60 shop in the other supermarkets. i bought 2 bottles of fizz for xmas day as well. the veg all looked pretty fresh and with the big 6 fruit and veg being 39p each i was more than happy.

    there was the odd thing i though "oh i ususally buy that"and they didnt have it but i cant really think what now. i guess i'll see what the quality of the food will be like over the next few weeks...but last night we had ham leek muschroom cream cheese pasta all with things bought last night & it was really nice. just as nice as our normal shop.

    I guess having lived on Mr T value for quite a while now, the value cant really be that much different.

    crikey its very cold today. i'll warm my self up with a nice warm NSD :)

    looking forward to my weekend. mum & dad are coming over for breakfast and then the rest of the weekend chilling out, staying at home and not spending.

    Hope you all have a good day :) x
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  • contemplated just sending flowers to a friend for xmas....put all my details in. and then reminded my self that i can not afford to be so generous.

    this has saddened my day. but i am pleased i stayed strong. go me.
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