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  • happy_daddy_2
    happy_daddy_2 Posts: 379 Forumite
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    I am sorry I haven't posted in a couple of days I have lost contact with my daughter now and I am sure people will understand I am devastated but I know with every bit of strength I have I am going to fight this and try and get it sorted,at the moment I feel so alone I just don't know what to do
  • gallygirl
    gallygirl Posts: 17,240 Forumite
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    I don't know what advice to give you apart from to say be strong. Emma knows you love her. Draw on the strength of that love to see you through. xx
    A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort
    :) Mortgage Balance = £0 :)
    "Do what others won't early in life so you can do what others can't later in life"
  • kelpie35
    kelpie35 Posts: 1,789 Forumite
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    happy_daddy wrote: »
    I am sorry I haven't posted in a couple of days I have lost contact with my daughter now and I am sure people will understand I am devastated but I know with every bit of strength I have I am going to fight this and try and get it sorted,at the moment I feel so alone I just don't know what to do

    So sorry to hear this :cry:

    My thoughts and prayers are with you
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,457 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Keep fighting & take care of you x
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.     ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • happy_daddy_2
    happy_daddy_2 Posts: 379 Forumite
    100 Posts
    I will up date you later ladies of my day it's going to be a busy one thank you one and all
  • happy_daddy_2
    happy_daddy_2 Posts: 379 Forumite
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    Well so far I have booked an appointment to see my solicitor I have to wait to the 2nd of April at 10 am grrrr I have begged her any cancellations please contact me....
  • HeadAboveWater
    HeadAboveWater Posts: 3,941 Forumite
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    Aw so sorry to hear that :( Thinking about you!

    As others have said, Emma knows exactly how you feel about her, no question. You are a great dad and the good relationship you have with your daughter will show.

    Stay strong.
    Wealth is what you're left with when all your money runs out
  • MrBloater
    MrBloater Posts: 750 Forumite
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    HD you're going through the worst nightmare of any decent Dad. Can I just remind you that no matter how tough it gets, how much crap is thrown at you and how unjust everything seems - you have to keep what comes across on this thread as your positivity - your determination to get your debts sorted, to address your weight and to look after your folks and your girl. Your girl needs you, and will need you for a long long time - these setbacks are only temporary. Keep everything logged, trawl your memory and diaries for every broken promise, every phone call, every muttered threat by your ex's family, every time you have had access, keep a timeline of it all - it will help in the long run. But try not to get eaten away by the bitterness and anger. You are one of the good guys. Good guys do win in the end. You have a lot of supporters on here so if you need to vent, do it here - don't give any ammunition to those who have other agendas. Good luck mate.
    2011: 301k in debt and morbidly obese (DFW)
    2014: Goodbye Bloater, Hello Boater (DFW)
    2015: Got here by luck, intending to stay by judgement (MFW)
    2015: Back to DFW, but not back to Square One (DFW)
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,457 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    I am so humbled.
    What a lovely fantastic supportive post from MRBloater.
    Keep going HappyDaddy :) x
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.     ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • happy_daddy_2
    happy_daddy_2 Posts: 379 Forumite
    100 Posts
    Oh my word what an amazing post that has humbled me blessed me and gave me the believe Mr Bloater you are a star and I thank you dearly from the bottom of my heart MSE and lovely ladies that bless me and encourage me with my day to day life. Today has been a day of reflection I have walked miles just thinking, Getting things into perspective, and I am ready.....With support from family friends work and the great people from MSE .... I will Overcome
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