Time to start again

happy_daddy_2

Hahahaha-Awww i am sorry that i have neglected you over the last couple of days guys but i have been very busy workwise i have worked 38 hours in three days Well my good news!!! i went into work yesterdayand i was speaking to one of the girls and i was generally chatting with her about holidays and looking forward to the new financial year in april so i could put in for some holidays i told her that i still had holidays to take 76.8 hours worth and what i thought i was set to lose them because i had not taken them before the new financial year... Anyway she told me to go and see the boss to see if there was anything they could do to help well to cut a long story short they have agreed to pay me the allocated hours on my next wage so near enough two extra weeks on my wage so totally delighted about it.

gallygirl

Aw that's great news :T. Though you should be taking all your holidays - it helps the body and mind recharge . So make sure you do it this year!

So, what are you going to do with the money .

kelpie35

That is excellent news :T worth the wait :rotfl:

I have every confidence in you that it will be spent/saved in a wise way :A

Enjoy your weekend :beer:

happy_daddy_2

Thanks guys... I am delighted I have Learned something from it, I am really looking forward to seeing Emma today my time is quite limited over this weekend so will make the best of things. Well here's to a day off and here's to grabbing an opportunity to grab some extra Income..

HeadAboveWater

Great news about the money, but I agree with gallygirl in that it's important to have the time off for yourself too! No making the same mistake again please!!

Happy Friday and enjoy your day with Emma

happy_daddy_2

Prior to going out with my dad I managed to get a quick survey in worth 40p well happy with that and I have been treated to a lovely turkey dinner co dad... Well fed and well happy=a really really happy daddy

happy_daddy_2

Today has been a mixed bag of emotion a lovely morning with me and my dad and the afternoon I was hurting to see Emma cry, 'Dad mum keeps swearing at me and telling me If I don't get myself sorted, I have to pack my bags and go and live with you. Its so hard listening to stuff like this as I have to play things very carefully with Emma's mummy if i I stand up to her my access is always stopped, and Hopefully what I have always tried to do is be the best father I can and I will do the right thing . Once I got Emma sorted and settled, we spent sometime messing about colouring in, and playing connect four and she went off to her youth club she spent £2. Afterwards Emma was humbled by Comic relief, Dad would you donate 10 pound to Comic relief please and in return I will clean your car How could I refuse, Even with moneysaving watching Comicrelief has brought me back to earth as a father I am so blessed by my child I cannot believe the messed up world we live in I am delighted to donate, even though I am in debt to some I really I am a millionaire goodnight everyone x

happy_daddy_2

Awww I have had a right rubbish morning so far but how my philosophy goes throw a bit of negativity at me I will turn it around, What has it been with women this week, first Lynda and now Emma's mummy having a go at me. The situation with Emma's mummy is a very simple one some may disagree with me but hey I am human. Well the regular followers on my diary know of my story regarding my daughter Emma that I have access to my daughter every weekend, Emma was due to go back to her second weekend at Durham to do activities as she is going to attend her first ever big adventure a five day sleep over in April. On Monday I spoke to Emma's mum about arrangements for the weekend I am working 2-8 today so I was more than happy to drop Emma off this morning Emma's mum was going to make arrangements for her to be picked up in the afternoon and she said I could have my daughter after work and drop her off on Sunday, Emmas was delighted by this as she thought her weekend would have been spoilt Well basically Emma's mum has gone back on her word, I dropped Emma off this morning and driving back with her mum she turned around and said she was not letting me have Emma this weekend and I am gutted if she told me on Monday it would have eased it all but my daughters my world I simply adore her and love with all my heart.

Spends for the day
£10 pound I have had to pay to Emma's mums step dad remember the one that is wanting to hit me... cannot believe the figure I live 13 mile away from Durham and his car 1.4 grrr what I do to keep the peace
£4 This included a magazine and stuff for my dinner

Well Have a Good day everyone XxHdxX

kelpie35

So sorry HD for all the hassle you are having to go through.

Everyone here knows how much you love Emma and they are all supporting you. You are a great Daddy and I know that Emma knows that too. You will, maybe not right now, in the future, know just how much Emma appreciates all you do for her and as she gets older and more mature she will have a bigger say in who she wishes to live with.

Is there no way you might be able to apply for full custody of Emma?

I just wish people did not use you, it makes me so so angry.:mad:

I do hope you have a good shift at work and try to keep your pecker up.

Don't forget You are a GREAT dad, son and friend, no one can take that away from you :beer:

happy_daddy_2

Kelpie what I am going to do my dear I will write a detailed post about me and Emma's story so far.....