Seeing my boyfriend

lostinrates

Cardiff girl,

I can see this is exciting and nervewracking both for you, but you seem to be whipping your self up into a state about all of this.

Work will be normal, with a frisson of excitement when you see each other, at which point grin and say hi. Have no physical or otherwise inappropriate contact in work but a plan to meet, maybe for lunch, but definitely afterwards for the next month. Don't meet for lunch every day, maintain your normal social group at work. Do not talk about the relationship with them, and when they press for details just say, 'who knows, early days yet, so ....anyone seeen those lovely dresses in the window of the clothes shop on th corner ' or something like that (obviously appropriately tailored to your situation.

The more you get in a tizzy about it the harder this rush of emotion is going to be for you both during this month but also, crucially, when the time draws to an end.

Cardiff_Girl_2

I'm on lunch, Ive not seen him upto now. He text me saying he was in meetings and they were boring. He just wants to go chill out in the hotel.

Asked if I was going round tonight or if I just wanted to do something before home.

Not seeing him knowing he is close is killing me. I need a cuddle of him

SavingPennies_2

It's killing me too after following this thread the last few days! Hope you too get together soon :j

Errata

Cardiff_Girl wrote: »

I'm on lunch, Ive not seen him upto now. He text me saying he was in meetings and they were boring. He just wants to go chill out in the hotel.

Asked if I was going round tonight or if I just wanted to do something before home.

Not seeing him knowing he is close is killing me. I need a cuddle of him

I thought you were staying in his hotel with him?

Cardiff_Girl_2

Errata wrote: »

I thought you were staying in his hotel with him?

I am, he was asking if I was or if I just wanted to do something.

Not seen him yet. Last break now! Maybe I should text him ask him his room number.

robpw2

yes new surroundings is tought but if the person is meant to be it all works out in the end
enjoy your evening

*max*

Bless! I'm picturing you now, hiding in the hotel bathroom with the water running, frantically typing on your mobile "He's asked me if I want chicken or steak for dinner, what do I do???".

I hope you have a great time, and I'm sure you will! But please - chill!

joannaspanner

I'm exhausted just reading this thread!!!!

DCFC79

Not sure if its been mentioned but yes on orange wednesdays you can go to pizza express and get 2 pizzas for the price of 1 and you used to get a free garlic bread (might have had a choice of 2 or 3 if garlic bread wasn't something you liked ), might get a choice if you didnt fancy pizza.

Just enjoy the time together.

Cardiff_Girl_2

He has asked if I want chicken and steak hahaha

Nights going well. Still really nervous. though. We are getting room service :-D