Trying for a Baby Part 8

an9i77

skaps wrote: »

Congrats to all of u who got yr BFPs this month. Hoping it will be my turn next month.

Hope so too. Maybe February can top January - all that valentine's nookie!

amyloofoo

I know you ladies will understand even if I am being Little Mrs Whinge-a-lot at the moment...

I've worked 62.5 hours in the last 5 days :eek: so I've come home and drank about a pint of wine :rotfl: as I know I haven't OVd so WTH is the point???? I can't go into details as it makes me easily identifiable and would break patient confidentiality, but I'm having a seriously difficult time at work ATM due to personal circumstances relating to an inpatient lady (which I'm unable to share with colleagues :eek:) and this lady is taking advantage a bit...

It's made extra hard by the fact that she has the most beautiful little baby I've ever seen, and I'm still waiting to hear from the gynae. Meanwhile, DH is not being compliant :rotfl: so there's no hope for the forseeable future.

I sometimes think he doesn't really care if we have little ones or not, just as long as it's not his fault.

P.S. As for those torturing themselves with OBEM... I come home from these ridiculous shifts and then watch it anyway :eek: I guarantee it's worse when you know everyone! People ask me all the time how old my children are, (then following my reply), when I'll have them... I suppose it's fair enough given the job I do, but it's a good job I'm patient and/or a good actress!

Sazamataz

Hi ladies, thought I'd share with you my news as I think it will give some of you hope.

You may remember that I posted as I had come off the pill in July and I had not had a 'proper' period since then. I decided to go to the Doctors as I was worrying and this month she did day 21 bloods which she wrote to me asking me to make an appointment. I have an appointment tomorrow for day 3 bloods so thought I'd wait until everything was back and go see her then.
Anyway to get to the crux of it, yesterday I got a TLP and this morning it is definitely a BFP - I'm pregnant!!
I have no idea when I O'd (it must have been late if Dr asked to see me after day 21 bloods) but we just DTD every other day!

Sorry if I've jumped the queue a little but I know some of you have been posting about periods after stopping the pill and so I thought my story might help :-)

I hope you all get your BFP's very soon!

BeNiceToMySelf

congratulations sazamataz!

what job do you do amyloofoo? PMA to you, it is rubbish when there is someone not very nice at work

loulou123

Morning everyone

Wow to all the BFPs this month - I wish you all a fantastic 9 months.

I had a well depressing dream last night, dreamt I was pregnant and so happy, but then I lost the baby - HORRIBLE dream. Left me feeling down this morning, even though it was just a dream, which feels a bit pathetic.

Hope everyone else has had better starts to their day!

becca0417

I've cried all the way to work this morning & half an hour in the toilets. It just feels so unfair & I feel like it's my fault, not DHs. I need to talk to him about this but I just keep crying. I know this is a stupid post but I needed to get it out somewhere x

Birdie85

Congratulations BeNice! Clearly biting the bullet and delurking did the job for you.

Maybe I should lurk for a while and reappear as a newbie, see if I get some of the luck it seems to bring?!

Shame to see you leave COMP, will miss you.

Hugs for all the spotting Skaps, it's awful when it's like that.

Huge hugs for Lily, must've have been so hard to watch OBEM. Hope it didn't drag up too many awful memories.

I keep having dreams like that Loulou, it's awful. I just have this massive fear that it's going to take me so long to get PG then I'll lose it. I generally make the best of things and tend not to worry about stuff that's out of my control but this is still something that haunts me, actually everything to do with TTC is making me act out of character. I'm also half convinced that OH will just drop dead one day so I always have to say 'I love you I love you I love you' before I leave him just in case!

Hugs Amy, hope work gets better for you. I'd say you fully deserved that pint of wine and I hope it came with some junk food too!

Really hope things go well with the FS Becca, like TeamLowe says, you'll get A Plan which is a good thing! ETA: So sorry you're feeling down today. Sometimes you just need a good cry so let it out and get a cuppa and biscuit. Big big huge hugs.

**Bitter hag alert** Not directed at anyone in particular as this has been building for some time but I kind of wish people would stop appearing from nowhere with their 'Hooray I'm PG' announcements in the belief it will give us all hope. It doesn't give me hope, it just feels like someone rubbing salt into the wound. I know a lot say that they've been trying for ages but if they haven't been posting I can't say I feel happy or excited since I don't know them and they don't know me. Sorry. **Climbing back under my rock now hoping not to get flamed**

abis21

Awww, becca - big hugs. I had days where the tears just wouldn't stop either Are you able to go home - or do you think you will be a bit better once you have let it all out a bit? Sometimes I was better staying at work cos I knew I would 'snap out of' crying eventually but at home I thought I had more opportunity to be miserable. Luckily we don't have many customers coming through reception so I don't think I did cry on anyone I shouldn't have done

Please don't try to think of it as your fault tho :o I bet if your DHs SA was poor you wouldn't 'blame him' as such - altho I think its much easier for us to blame ourselves rather than anyone else. Its not your choice to have wonky cycles Becca :o I really really hope the FS will be able to help and all this will seem like a bit of a bad dream when you are holding your baby in your arms I think the testing stage is a bit carp cos you kind of realise that its not just gonna happen magically one month like you set off from the journey imagining it would work like Lots of love Becca, hope you feel a little brighter soon xx

Big hugs also to Birdie, Loulou & Amyloofoo.

COMP - I think once you've been on the boards a while theres not as much to write about to update so often - it gets a bit dull awaiting ov, and the excitement isn't always there so much in the 2ww. I hope yr ok tho and get yr bfp soon. Don't forget to come and tell us - I always look out for news from the regulars or the people I have gotten to know along the journey. xxx

thriftylass

Bigs Hugs to everybody who has a hard time, maybe the month of love will be ours.

Had some spotting yesterday during the day, but nothing since afternoon. Nothing again yet this morning, was sure AF would come, but temp still high too. Probably rear it's ugly head later or tomorrow as it was early the last two cycles.

Metranil_Vavin

Birdie for what it's worth, I agree with you.

I also think really once you have had a BFP you should vacate this thread. I know I pop up from time to time, but it's only if I feel I can offer some useful info.