Trying for a Baby Part 8

mrshappy

Hugs vesper, what a horrible time you're having just now. Hope everything works out for you x

Hi Fannyanna-sorry you're having a hard time just now, hope things get better x

Congrats to BFPs

skaps

Ive done my opks since sunday and sunday and monday was dark but tonight it was lighter. How many more days should I continue to do opks for?

claire16c

skaps wrote: »

Ive done my opks since sunday and sunday and monday was dark but tonight it was lighter. How many more days should I continue to do opks for?

How dark were the lines were they as dark as or almost as dark as the control line? Don't suppose you took pics? Once you get a positive you can stop. I temp so I check that my temp goes up after, which it normally takes about 1-2 days to do after a positive opk, confirming I ovulated. If you're not temping but checking cm etc & you think you have then you could also stop. But if the lines weren't that dark and you don't think you've ov yet then keep going til you get a positive!

BeNiceToMySelf

big hugs Vesper and good luck for court next week. the truth should come out then.

hugs fannyanna, if it helps remember your boss maybe thinking about trying/planning for a baby but we all know it isn't as simple as that. People pretend its easy but its not!

no pre AF spotting and AF is due properly tomorrow. I can feel my hopes rising darn it! When do you guys think I should POAS if AF doesn't come?

skintchick

BeNiceToMySelf wrote: »

big hugs Vesper and good luck for court next week. the truth should come out then.

hugs fannyanna, if it helps remember your boss maybe thinking about trying/planning for a baby but we all know it isn't as simple as that. People pretend its easy but its not!

no pre AF spotting and AF is due properly tomorrow. I can feel my hopes rising darn it! When do you guys think I should POAS if AF doesn't come?

Hell yes!

I'm on my iPod so can't say much but huge hugs to Vesper. Janepig on here works for the CPS do you could Pm her for help on how the system works. Remember a jury has to be convinced beyond reasonable doubt in order to convict. Sounds like there's plenty of doubt to me.

teaandcakeordeath

BeNiceToMySelf wrote: »

no pre AF spotting and AF is due properly tomorrow. I can feel my hopes rising darn it! When do you guys think I should POAS if AF doesn't come?

I personally would go with the recommended 'first day of your missed period' malarky so POAS away! And don't forget even if BFN tomorrow the levels of HCG take longer to rise in urine than blood. Good luck if you decide to POAS tomorrow.

BeNiceToMySelf

thanks, currently considering asking OH to pick one up tomorrow morning on the way home from night shift. The disappointment would be immense tho. I'm only stopping myself thinking about it too much by stuffing my face! aaargh! So glad I have the support of this thread to stop myself going too stir crazy.

claire16c

Test test tomorrow morning! If AF is due tomorrow you probably wont even need fmu for it to work.

skaps

claire16c wrote: »

How dark were the lines were they as dark as or almost as dark as the control line? Don't suppose you took pics? Once you get a positive you can stop. I temp so I check that my temp goes up after, which it normally takes about 1-2 days to do after a positive opk, confirming I ovulated. If you're not temping but checking cm etc & you think you have then you could also stop. But if the lines weren't that dark and you don't think you've ov yet then keep going til you get a positive!

No I didnt damn it, next time I will. They were as dark as the control line on sunday, which Im guessing is a positive. I did have some cm yesterday. I will continue to test for a few days just to be sure.

BeNiceToMySelf

I have texted oh to ask him to pick me up a cheapo test. I have none in the house because it would be waaay too tempting to poas too early or get obsessed with poas. took me a while to work out what fmu meant lol. I don't feel pregnant at all, the lady lumps actually feel less tender than usual. The only positive sign is no pre af spotting. I'm glad you're all here in case af does arrive or bfn.